Said that men easily derailed, but women are often carrying a love affair. Restless mind put yourself in such and such situation? Whatever makes your heart just around the corner. Affair moment, remember that not guilty of the following low-level error.
betrayal Although it is not news, but cheating is not that it exists to be able to. strictly abide by the tenets of betrayal, to open the door to the liberation of the senses lust of the flesh.
First, the liberation of the body pulled out of feelings of betrayal are not allowed to move
truth, which is to be observed regardless of sex were derailed truth. eat would not only have to remember Cazui, but also rub is the worst example of this is, you think you just play, only to become overpowered. cheating easier said than done, many women are unaware of their overestimation of their ability or before the feelings are easily able to pull away, leaving only the sensory stimulation, playing at the same time having an affair with palm.
Second, select the object to be careful hh
experienced women know that eating is the second highest guiding principle of carefully choose the object. The man, a child will see the crazy hair nerve. friends, still feel very empty inside. This is only one man you can never be the eyes, because he love the field of unlimited, as long as a woman will have to see the reaction.
bedding and skills in addition to first-class selection of the object, the other mouth firmly insecure, but also a selection criteria. You want to select objects that will be brought into the coffin of a secret which type. Jane Wenham-Jones, is the It for the sake of absolute balance, both sides should hold the handle to each other, this way, no one dare to fight it. , does not eat the grass side of the principle hh
rabbit does not eat the grass edge, this phrase is the principle in the affair, after months of secret details of is surprising is too great. According to the first two principles to wheat from the chaff later, you have to recognize a reality: what people can not touch? what the object is definitely not? For example, you had to know who your friends of friends, relatives or neighbors. In short, any and your social circle intersection of the objects may be, should be listed in the the object is a bit crazy together, unless you are mentally deranged to go. unstable mental condition, and always starts acting strangely, may be finalized at any time performance, when you like a stone on their own feet escape the deadly fear.
four women to the wave line hh
derailed when a lot of cheating can help you see yourself, to clarify some issues. In other words, betrayal and go affair, however, you should know how to learn from similar experiences something new. is the most beautiful virtues. . You do not have to force myself to forget everything, just remember to learn from experience. derailment had experience of people, the end of a relationship, usually does not mean impossible in future to repeat, because such a thing done once as long as a lifetime be hard to exercise restraint. experts still insist, often derailed represent your feelings out of the existing problems, so your attention should again be tempted to put yourself why, why always want to leave the issue of emotional, rather than to focus placed on looking for comfort. to find out root of the problem, clear self needs, is a more pragmatic approach.
In addition, some basic moral
you should still have to follow the first, do not touch a married man; have children married man not to touch. And, at first sight good either, because the Code to tell you: do not touch the body can not fall in love with each other prior to the first, so you may finally put everything Peidiao. the ideal situation is: you different zip code, there is no mutual friends, do not know each other where they live, can only be used to contact the phone or sending text messages. Never too many interactions, so intertwined.
Miao
Monday, February 28, 2011
Sunday, February 27, 2011
Love and parting (sentiment)
Who desire to stay together with a person, then, how glad that they left?
Long ago in a short period of time, we thought he was a man deeply in love. Later, we learned that it was not love It was just lying to yourself.
you think people can not lose, not lose the original. you your tears, there will be another person make you laugh. you heartbroken, and then find people who do not love you, not worthy of your sadness. I look back, is this not a comedy? love to do when, a brand new realm, all the sorrow is nothing but history.
love always imagined more beautiful than reality meet, and if so, goodbye is the same. We think that love is very deep, very deep, one day, will let you know, it just is very shallow, very shallow. heaviest deepest love must grow up with.
because of love , two strangers can suddenly be familiar to sleep in the same bed. However, the same two people, in breaking up, say, I think you are getting strange.
love to two people from the unfamiliar becomes familiar, and the familiar becomes unfamiliar. Love is a stranger into a pair of lovers, strangers turn into a couple games.
believe love can change a person is young, the benefits, but also the young tragedy. prodigal son is always prodigal. that men changed, and perhaps the love of God or the Buddha of compassion, but it is not a woman.
not married is the most prodigal son, prodigal son is married to the most appropriate. often than not a woman change a rebel, but the woman just when the prodigal son wants to change there.
man's life, but for a woman to do two things: beyond her imagination than her vision of good and bad. a woman with his good to forgive his bad. If one day they can not be together, not him too bad, but she was too good.
our lifetime, to remember and to forget things as much. memory cells exist in the body inside, and the separation of body and never to destroy it, is equal to total disaster. However, some things must forget, forget about the pain, forget the people you love hurt, so be it.
time to let you know love, time can be prove love, but also be able to love ****. There is no time for grief can not be mitigated.
if time should not make you forget those who remember, we lost years what is the point?
If all the sorrow, pain, failures are false, and that nice? Unfortunately, a lot of the world the false heart, your pain, failure, sadness, has chosen to always be true.
he Notwithstanding thousand advantages, but he does not love you, this is one you can never convince myself to accept the drawbacks. the greatest disadvantage of a person is not selfish, passionate, savage, self-willed, but a paranoid love do not love themselves .
Secret Love is a self-destruction, is a great sacrifice. crush, do not even need an object, we just stand by the river, looking at her reflection in self-pity, and thought that being in love with someone else.
love and love songs, like the highest level is the residual sound wave. The most poignant is not revenge, but sorry. The best love is bound to have regrets. It turned into a lingering regret that curl, long look on. The most poignant love, not screaming in pain , but the same care for silence.
disappointed, and sometimes a blessing. as something to look forward, will be disappointed. Unfortunately, a blessing. because there are things you regret. search for love, then found Love has always been a thousand things and turns back.
most romantic love is not. The most romantic love, then, is when what has been parted with the person you called to ask: you? Well, just sad for fear of being a man found her.
love, sometimes, is a matter of sink thing, the so-called intellect and determination, but it is ridiculous to speak of self-comfort.
love has always been a constraints, the pursuit of love does not mean the pursuit of freedom. Freedom is precious, we use the most valuable thing in exchange for love. because you love someone, knowing that the loss of freedom, but also willing to make commitments.
word is used to compete with all the changes . changes originally eternity, our eternal promise only constrained by the changing things. can not be eternal, it is not a promise. promise is very expensive, if you respect your own personality.
Love is a sense of security and no security sense. Love is a shock, but also a sense of powerlessness. Love is the temptation, and only love can give you the strength to resist temptation. Love is loyal, but love will make you betray.
Ungrateful one, perhaps because His memory is not good. he forgot, so he was able to bear the heart; not because of his betrayal, so he forgot. before all, he was not completely forgotten, but his memory is so bad, the past is no longer a deep, soon replaced by new memories, new people only remember the laughter, forget the old man's smile.
love and nostalgia are two different things. a man can not forget the old lover, must be over the years he had hurt her, that it was a fault, He can not make up. When knowing irreversible, the only way is to miss the compensation, but also with the memory of her to punish myself. self-righteous self-deception but profound words.
understand love women usually lose badly. Love has always been brutal, winner-takes.
feelings can be transferred, the marriage can be frozen at any time, passion can be overdrawn, love, good price and sell. Yes, in this small city life, this is our life. < br> can not be together for a lifetime of love, but in a long journey, come and gone in the transfer station, regardless of how long to stay, always to leave, take another flight.
fated today, just try and to it. safest and most timely way to stay together or with their own.
a coin of the most beautiful state, not static, but when it is rotating like a top when no one knows, is about to turn out side, is the pleasure or pain, love or hate. pleasure and pain, love and hate, always keep entanglement.
the so-called fate, as it has and inventions are from the accident. Love is an invention the need to constantly improve. but, this invention is different from other inventions, it is not patents, it might be snatched away at any time.
more fear of losing the person, the more likely to lose. more want, the more to let go. let go is difficult, but had no choice.
things in the world can be undone, such as conscience, such as body weight. But something more irreversible, such dreams, such as age, for example, a person's feelings. give A person does not love you the pain and give up the one you love the people are suffering.
food can have a label indicating There is also a time limit, please before the expiration of the deadline to love her, take good care of her, because she is not waiting for timeout.
things sometimes, embrace, love is also timing. Yousheng love, aging, sickness and death . Love always knew it expires. some day, we put it out before we know it is the most vivid of the days are over forever.
feeling in the most, she did not stop, then, also During that road do not have to finish together, go back to find those scattered on the ground feel, the road to have run.
love is the most sad moment later the cold, a person who loved you, and suddenly away from you very far, right close by, but it is End of the World. has caused a sensation, has thousands of back and turns, once complacent, once cut, including. to the last, sad break-up turned out to be the most silent.
Long ago in a short period of time, we thought he was a man deeply in love. Later, we learned that it was not love It was just lying to yourself.
you think people can not lose, not lose the original. you your tears, there will be another person make you laugh. you heartbroken, and then find people who do not love you, not worthy of your sadness. I look back, is this not a comedy? love to do when, a brand new realm, all the sorrow is nothing but history.
love always imagined more beautiful than reality meet, and if so, goodbye is the same. We think that love is very deep, very deep, one day, will let you know, it just is very shallow, very shallow. heaviest deepest love must grow up with.
because of love , two strangers can suddenly be familiar to sleep in the same bed. However, the same two people, in breaking up, say, I think you are getting strange.
love to two people from the unfamiliar becomes familiar, and the familiar becomes unfamiliar. Love is a stranger into a pair of lovers, strangers turn into a couple games.
believe love can change a person is young, the benefits, but also the young tragedy. prodigal son is always prodigal. that men changed, and perhaps the love of God or the Buddha of compassion, but it is not a woman.
not married is the most prodigal son, prodigal son is married to the most appropriate. often than not a woman change a rebel, but the woman just when the prodigal son wants to change there.
man's life, but for a woman to do two things: beyond her imagination than her vision of good and bad. a woman with his good to forgive his bad. If one day they can not be together, not him too bad, but she was too good.
our lifetime, to remember and to forget things as much. memory cells exist in the body inside, and the separation of body and never to destroy it, is equal to total disaster. However, some things must forget, forget about the pain, forget the people you love hurt, so be it.
time to let you know love, time can be prove love, but also be able to love ****. There is no time for grief can not be mitigated.
if time should not make you forget those who remember, we lost years what is the point?
If all the sorrow, pain, failures are false, and that nice? Unfortunately, a lot of the world the false heart, your pain, failure, sadness, has chosen to always be true.
he Notwithstanding thousand advantages, but he does not love you, this is one you can never convince myself to accept the drawbacks. the greatest disadvantage of a person is not selfish, passionate, savage, self-willed, but a paranoid love do not love themselves .
Secret Love is a self-destruction, is a great sacrifice. crush, do not even need an object, we just stand by the river, looking at her reflection in self-pity, and thought that being in love with someone else.
love and love songs, like the highest level is the residual sound wave. The most poignant is not revenge, but sorry. The best love is bound to have regrets. It turned into a lingering regret that curl, long look on. The most poignant love, not screaming in pain , but the same care for silence.
disappointed, and sometimes a blessing. as something to look forward, will be disappointed. Unfortunately, a blessing. because there are things you regret. search for love, then found Love has always been a thousand things and turns back.
most romantic love is not. The most romantic love, then, is when what has been parted with the person you called to ask: you? Well, just sad for fear of being a man found her.
love, sometimes, is a matter of sink thing, the so-called intellect and determination, but it is ridiculous to speak of self-comfort.
love has always been a constraints, the pursuit of love does not mean the pursuit of freedom. Freedom is precious, we use the most valuable thing in exchange for love. because you love someone, knowing that the loss of freedom, but also willing to make commitments.
word is used to compete with all the changes . changes originally eternity, our eternal promise only constrained by the changing things. can not be eternal, it is not a promise. promise is very expensive, if you respect your own personality.
Love is a sense of security and no security sense. Love is a shock, but also a sense of powerlessness. Love is the temptation, and only love can give you the strength to resist temptation. Love is loyal, but love will make you betray.
Ungrateful one, perhaps because His memory is not good. he forgot, so he was able to bear the heart; not because of his betrayal, so he forgot. before all, he was not completely forgotten, but his memory is so bad, the past is no longer a deep, soon replaced by new memories, new people only remember the laughter, forget the old man's smile.
love and nostalgia are two different things. a man can not forget the old lover, must be over the years he had hurt her, that it was a fault, He can not make up. When knowing irreversible, the only way is to miss the compensation, but also with the memory of her to punish myself. self-righteous self-deception but profound words.
understand love women usually lose badly. Love has always been brutal, winner-takes.
feelings can be transferred, the marriage can be frozen at any time, passion can be overdrawn, love, good price and sell. Yes, in this small city life, this is our life. < br> can not be together for a lifetime of love, but in a long journey, come and gone in the transfer station, regardless of how long to stay, always to leave, take another flight.
fated today, just try and to it. safest and most timely way to stay together or with their own.
a coin of the most beautiful state, not static, but when it is rotating like a top when no one knows, is about to turn out side, is the pleasure or pain, love or hate. pleasure and pain, love and hate, always keep entanglement.
the so-called fate, as it has and inventions are from the accident. Love is an invention the need to constantly improve. but, this invention is different from other inventions, it is not patents, it might be snatched away at any time.
more fear of losing the person, the more likely to lose. more want, the more to let go. let go is difficult, but had no choice.
things in the world can be undone, such as conscience, such as body weight. But something more irreversible, such dreams, such as age, for example, a person's feelings. give A person does not love you the pain and give up the one you love the people are suffering.
food can have a label indicating There is also a time limit, please before the expiration of the deadline to love her, take good care of her, because she is not waiting for timeout.
things sometimes, embrace, love is also timing. Yousheng love, aging, sickness and death . Love always knew it expires. some day, we put it out before we know it is the most vivid of the days are over forever.
feeling in the most, she did not stop, then, also During that road do not have to finish together, go back to find those scattered on the ground feel, the road to have run.
love is the most sad moment later the cold, a person who loved you, and suddenly away from you very far, right close by, but it is End of the World. has caused a sensation, has thousands of back and turns, once complacent, once cut, including. to the last, sad break-up turned out to be the most silent.
Thursday, February 24, 2011
Why do we want to get married
Why are we getting married, because love? As to the age of marriage? For all aspects of looking at it together? Because of family pressure? Or because of unwanted pregnancies? Because of loneliness to companionship children rely on that? My friends a lot of acquaintances, these are. have a girlfriend told me after the divorce, not the ex-husband discouraged, is the marriage itself discouraged. I asked why, she said that living with her marriage had not the same imagination and feeling, imagination marriage, no matter with which man can not be created. I asked: So you and your ex-husband said do you want in marriage?
just to say the beginning, she said, was that he laughed, and later can not say . I continue to ask: What is your ideal marriage, in the end look like?
She was silent for children: that is, two people had properly chanting hh.
I still continue to ask her. At last she said: the house to There are several rooms, two people can have a separate space to dry all the things that two people weekend activities to some, to the suburbs to play, a Man that he can share some of the housework, hygiene, willing to participate cleaning.
her request is not a bit excessive, but her ex-husband do not want to cooperate with her, he likes to sleep late watching TV to play games, do not like to go to the suburbs, that housework is a woman thing, it does not matter to her.
they are for these chores, arguing for two years, finally breaking up. the start there is not no love, her ex-husband bought her jewelry, never stingy to buy new clothes, she has never been out of control over his party to send, and she ate was a good thing also remember to give him back, I remember her in-laws every month phone calls.
between them there is no money, what she wants, he can not give her to him, he feel nothing, because he also paid the same, and also good to her, and she told him the good you do not it should be?
after she finished with me, and said: I never said that the ideal marriage with others What, I think this thing can not force, force is also boring.
However, if your ideal, but your heart a good personal secrets, then how do you make the other half of you have a thorough understanding, he does not understand You need to accept your needs, how can you have a beautiful life together?
We are not for the words live together, has been to create life, and go and enjoy the happiness.
before marriage, let's ask each other, your ideal of marriage, what it was like, this is necessary.
what you need, I need what we understand each other's needs after the marriage of the imagination, will gradually implement.
modern marriage, is not as simple as food and shelter, work at home, we need a comfortable, safe, warm little world, but not picky, shirk, dirty, lazy, these things, destroyed more than marriage, the marriage will destroy your confidence.
Therefore, to emphasize once again: We have another person in order to keep up with married life We're going to make a life and enjoy happiness together as parents, along with health, happiness, strong to finish this long life.
we have already recognized, or is forced to admit, the reality is the most important , always yield to the reality of life, the ideal of this stuff, but young and frivolous, between the ideal and the reality, there will always be gaps, and we dare not say that, through efforts, in fact, can achieve the ideal, the ideal can become reality. < br> Because we are afraid, afraid to face the cruel reality, idealism is just a floating joke.
because we are afraid that after repeated efforts to get or failure, or will it farther and farther from ideal.
However, you have not thought about marriage is that we can not give up one of the most ideal as it will with your life, for us once in a lifetime, life is forever.
we are worried for their studies, to work distress, in order to dress distress, in order to work in the A or B to work in the interests of gain and loss calculations forever, we have to buy a dress from the texture to the price of refined over and over, however, love a person, together with a person, we are decisions are often made quickly.
enlighten us take the case himself: This is the feelings, emotions can not be so mean, there must be love, conditions almost on the line, then he will become good, the house is not something marriage can buy, something he did not mind, can develop after marriage.
you give up this ideal has become the first step.
we do not want to face the differences, we act for the love that is totally dedicated to accept difference, think this is love, and think this is a marriage should make sacrifices.
actually did not.
difference is the reason why we become ourselves and not someone else's cause. your other half is not enough Well, he just not the same as you.
Unfortunately, once we started dating, they will put two people as one. beautiful verses, often from the fact that: you'm missing, like he wanted to get away tears, he was asleep, but also Mozhao growling teeth, your heart can Liuzhuokoushui hh exchange for it? can exchange just fine.
our hearts, not a U disk, which record is not so easy to whom to read, even if your partner does not work.
not deny the ideal existence, the ideal is that we want to have a life, why be ashamed to admit?
Ouqi their repeated until the future, intertwined, it is better to tell him in advance: I want this, that there is this, I do not like that and that, I hate the most is that I will never accept is another.
(call for convenience, I have taken here one woman mentioned the names of the flowers, in fact, everyone is a flower.) Camellia
my friend, her husband hates her mention him every day: what to wear certain colleagues today, what to wear, what certain cosmetics colleagues recently, when certain students gathered about what the acquisition of .
first he fully understand those brands, and the second he felt she was too vain, trivial, and the third hurt his pride, he thought she meant to say: how do we can not afford, how do we then poor?
kind of disgusted look and he stimulated her, she would say, the more trouble the more she said. until the last quarrel.
fact, the camellia's mind is simple, she wanted him to understand these things are a gift from their husbands mm a gift she really wanted, of course, out of vanity, she also wanted some good things, so she put these two mixed mm she wanted her husband to her buy a lot of good things, it is better she likes, some big things.
her hope that he will pay attention to her speak, her words could be interested, can then ask her words: Oh, that what has happened, there are so OK? you like it, that I bought you so?
Camellia said: even if he does not buy, just to say that is good too, at least, so I am happy happy hh
This is often committed by a woman error, we always feel that he should understand that such a simple matter of course, how can he not understand.
But men just do not understand, he must wait for you to tell him: I am a woman, a woman like a gift, send little gift to me I would be happy to send anything, you can see this magazine's luxury directory, above address, and the price, pay attention: you can buy much cheaper in Hong Kong.
is not it funny? But this is the reality , between man and woman to receive the information asymmetry has been exaggerated to you live I live in Venus, Mars, Earth mm that what you do is Safari?
before marriage, and your marriage to each other with a description of the ideal marriage, is a good thing, allowing you to find many hidden ahead of time differences, you can advance to think about how to solve.
second question: How big is your ideal marriage gap
assume that you have very well to tell the other side, his ideal of what marriage is, assuming you have not talked and talked to a falling out, and no despise each other's little good. Suppose your own ideals, made it very clear, going to be fine to have a couple of houses, the children room to have several windows and the like.
can be hundred percent sure, you and his mind the ideal of marriage are two different things, even though you high similarity to the screen are the same, then there will be the difference between 3D and plane.
Do not cry, do not despair, do not be angry, here once again reminded that you are two completely different people. two people even describe the same thing, not like the say, not to mention your writing about the ideal classroom.
let alone talk about the ideal life to no avail. talk about the ideal, at least in advance so you can see, your marriage will be easy to go wrong in those places .
peach of my classmates, even those of us friends all know that her greatest wish is to go a few places, taking advantage of young, tourism travel. She is very determined to tell her husband to go out every year after marriage .
her husband is not without promise, promise very well. Basically, Peach said, after all the things about the marriage, he promised well, and she asked him if the idea, he said: listen to your .
it is very sweet, you heard the other half said so, is it? In fact it?
In fact, this is a perfunctory, this is not a reality before the arrival, will not do perfunctory any consideration and commitment. travel need the money, takes time, but also mood, he does not think about these things, because that was not his problem, he just let her happy happy, do not want to consider this issue carefully.
marriage did not go on a trip once a peach, is not enough money, he did not want to go, he just tell her: I did not mind, I work very tired, I'm busy weekend I have to work overtime.
them to this fights many times, until finally, his true thoughts come: my parents at home so hard, I have the nerve to go out and play?
Peach said: then we took them out to play, you can not?
they get older great, better than giving money.
less but we did not give Boyd?
short this problem not been resolved, only a small peach ideals shattered after marriage. She thought of divorce more than once. She is also gradually understand that the ideal marriage of her husband: The best arrangement is to follow his wife, do not have any additional costs, the money saved, to the parents. He was very fair and gave both parents.
However, this is not Peach life you want. Marriage is not to make money, save money, save down to the parents that simple life she wanted, exciting than this.
talk on the ideal marriage, he is not too superficial than you? he Is impatient and said: so many pieces do? so many things can you want to know? forget Well, you heard it, all I have to obey his wife.
lot of men because women emotional, afraid to speak their true thoughts, and, he has many ideas, they would feel too much, but after marriage he would think to do so, because those ideas in his heart, has been entrenched.
Peach husband's idea, if we can describe it would be this: We want to make money, and I the last decade the main goal is to make money, make money for the purpose of filial piety, filial piety is lots of money, both parents are. also Yes, we want to save money, and in the future have children spend a lot of money, is money in case we get sick. enjoy life that has nothing to do with me and enjoy life a waste of money, squandered love you women, I do one way or another.
he not wrong, from the appearance point of view, he is a simple, tall, very thoughtful man, really listen to peach, then you can quit smoking for her every day washing dishes, a little bitter that he was born, so the money very seriously It is also normal.
problem is ideal for both of them, not only a huge difference, but is not compatible. He never praised her new clothes, he never gave her flowers, he heard the tour to do not look.
So, you really need to know what his vision is, you do not mind his temper tantrums, threatened to go back, if you really want to marry him, you need to check first your Ideal gap between how much? large to what extent?
your understanding of happiness, and if not, at least not to undermine each other. If we say that for him, all the money is being saved, then you go to mountain happy to see the water to exist, and similarly, if you go out to travel, to realize their ideals, for him, your , you can make much sacrifice?
Peach problem is very simple, as long as the expense of her husband a little money, little time on it, who apart from a business trip, did not walk where they couple not low income That money is not bad, her husband is not so busy, even a weekend not get it out.
in principle, but he felt that, in principle, can not yield, yield to you once you will have a second, that this continues to save any money.
awful? her marriage really do not know what he thought so, she really thought he would totally listen to her.
them into another marriage, a situation stalemate, stalemate is the relationship continues, the two continued on in various family obligations, but has nothing to do with happiness.
which her husband is not what he used to the simple days of dull, peach argument is : this continues, I'm not dead, that is crazy.
you can say that the ideal peach is too high, blame Why does not she ask for less, you can sympathize with her, why is met such people. you can sympathize with the peach husband, he could not see the smiling faces of his wife, their happy I'm afraid it is difficult.
the gap between the ideal, at any time there is more conflict, because these gaps caused, unfortunately, we learned that even though we had pre-marital This person told us how different, or illusions, he will change it? marriage will change him? me to pay some, perhaps he will get better, right?
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another pair of common story of husband and wife, and asparagus-law relationship is encountered. She certainly does not include the ideal of marriage with her mother live together, but because of the insistence of her husband, her concessions, the result-law can not get along, divorce.
them statement of the ideal marriage is the same: for the house, for cars, will raise children, how are families, we all have jobs, how ever bad? no special requirements, two people are really, do not pay attention to the small atmosphere What little atmosphere, and all want to live well, taking advantage of the young in recent years to do better business.
naturally expect that such a common goal, after getting married should be able to form a nice small family, happy I will not speak, at least very stable.
they did not consider the third person, but a life, have lost their freedom.
these, but also you can not think of marriage, can not see. We are the ideal scenario, too vague, and we always feel that life can not be set so clear, we see car and house parents are dead, it is a joke.
sentence jokes are rude, very snob, but this description is clear. If we are the ideal scenario, can be compressed into a slogan or a slogan, perhaps more than it more brutal, more snobbish.
mother is not bad, divorce bears also say, she just feel she is good for children.
bears say that they are trivial ground of confidence, wanted to treat the elderly, her mother was sad, that divorce is all his fault, I would not ever be together with her son. son of bears, said: I did not let you have a good skill, after you find a better the bar.
What is more sad than this, we are good, we even understand each other's difficulties, but we just can not live together, in particular, could not live in a marriage relationship.
s three questions: how to describe your ideal marriage
summarize it, we know that in the ideal of marriage should talk about your marriage, in talking about the ideal of marriage, it should understand each other's gaps, these differences will directly affect us to modify and adjust their own ideal of marriage, after all, two people can marry, the future rules of the game, it is best taking into account the ideal of two people.
is not to say that my ideal, I have to get, even if at the expense of the front of the people at another, it is the only happiness? Or, for him, I can be sacrificed, ignored, glad to see him happy, I happy?
extreme is never happy, it kinds of impulsive and wild, it will kill your reason, it will hurt hurt yourself. love you, he will not want to give you a good idea; and not you, even as his own ideal of the ideal, the loss of self, people are not necessarily appreciate.
the premise that we really love, really in good faith to face later in life. I think you will not talk about with her hair of the master of your ideal marriage, if you're Friends said that his parents might have said, but you should tell him to say the most, with that love you, you sure love him, the father of your future, your life partner, told him that said about your ideal marriage.
JM said a lot of the thread, communication is very important. with a lot of things, we know that is important, but to do, really hard.
we feel, the couple silly discussion, the discussion of marriage as one thing, in particular, seem silly, trivial premarital put the marriage first to get all the desktop, but also as something to discuss, it is simply hh
However, We're very serious deposited mask, we tirelessly about gossip, we see from the TV series is a look at an hour, we chatted shopping eating hair, as a lot of time spent, spent, like energy.
we prefer to do these, but also do not want to discuss before marriage marriage, together with the other half do not want to advance to face those troubles and predictable differences in advance to think about the solution.
it is only because we are afraid of conflict, we are afraid of that, we As with the previous occurrence of fear of losing control of the fight, our hearts knew how he sometimes kind of person, but also counting on him to change after marriage you can see, we look forward to married life, let the track, the best you left to track up to our ideal of marriage.
This is not really possible. a lot of marriages, but we paid the price in order to understand and see through a person can understand what we really want. we must wait until all the fantasy are shattered, all contradictions are broke, we learned that the original decision was a mistake. perhaps very beautiful, you love, eat, drink are catered to, but you do not have any problems with the considered, the views of any specific things are inconsistent . Error is wrong, love is not wrong, but in the name of love, barely adhere to their own hopeless relationship is wrong.
is that you what the ideal of marriage, the more detailed the better, in fact, so you meet people you are ready to marry, your ideals will close with the actual step by step, until the blend.
then you will in a few words in passing, as written in the beginning of the friend : that two people had ah well.
not so simple, you have to elaborate, the process you describe the ideal marriage, in fact, you really need is you understand the process, it is definitely not a word or two can be explained clearly .
lot of people do not understand themselves, and not good at one thing to describe, clarify their own ideas, then you need to give yourself time to tell myself that this is what you should do more than beauty, weight loss, are important things.
course, we can unwittingly get married, we can put all the good men who are on, maybe we met a nice guy, really happy to finish this life. However, on the street so many men, which one would come up, give it your ideal? even if there were such people, to love you as his highest ideal, his own ideals, who should the Compensation?
So, you still sit down and a cup of tea, talk about it to begin with their own good, listen to the voice of your heart, the ideal of marriage, in fact, has never been far.
basis of an ideal marriage: What are you going to get kind of love and sacrifice.
I think the marriage of love, we must first independent of each other and respect each other's independence, and can open their minds frankly, after which is communication, understanding, trust, pity, tolerance, love of comfort is not a hh
violent destruction of > such as sunflower President, she inherited her mother's tradition, like all domination, like do not ask each other to make decisions in advance, and her other half has been received and silent, one day suddenly broke out, because she always when he wants to rest , family gossip and talked on his ears and automatic filtering usually choose to sleep in the past to hear when she is once again time taken the trouble to shake him, she felt that this is civilization, between husband and wife, effective communication. she was a man do a loss outbreak, and then she began to fight back the power of ten times, listing himself as he did everything. sense of failure.
there, Ms. Rose and her boyfriend is very aggressive, and he spends a lot of time in work and study, she suggested a little entertainment and relaxation, will be despised him, and he also asked She went driving test, test qualification training, foreign language classes, he has a sense of crisis that must be flourishing life is correct. Rose finished the qualification examination, had obsessive-compulsive disorder, she was always afraid of myself to forget what life arrangements She was afraid of phone suddenly rang, he shouted over there: Did you go to school, ah, ah Do not waste fees!
we love, we so into the marriage, but we always separate the two Who can not replace who live. our parents in that generation of people who inherited a weakness is: because of love, put themselves and their children confused, we do not consciously played the role of parents and children. I love you, I done a lot for you, so you have to listen to me. I love you, I was right, so you have to obey me.
I love you, you against me, that hurt me, just do not love me.
kind of thinking, is a precursor to destroy happiness. whether it is their lack of independence, or force the other side to give up independence, so that your marriage will become thorny road, you will be very confused, very hurt, very angry, because you All for love, but I do not know true love, is common to grow, mature, and not to your requirements, to arrange everything.
Miss Xiang Rikui marriage continues, she learned is: do not sleep in the Pro bother him before, when he was a bad temper, she was replaced by open forum at the dinner table, her daily experience, there must be a listener, whether he is listening not listening. She often told us: my so and so, is so boring, very quiet.
she did not know, Mr. X is the best debater in the university, with students gathering, he always jokes to make everyone laugh, said the man.
he right to speak to to her, willing to play a silent man, in exchange for peace. He actually did not like the exchange, but she never thought any other way. When he has anything to say, when she interrupted him, always wander somewhere else.
marriage he thought she was lovely, a girl's innocence, he was tired of marriage, accept their fate, and accept the marriage is staid affair.
Miss Xiang Rikui with many a woman, do not know, do not want to accept what was originally a man, she has always been willing to create the .
Ms. Rose left her boyfriend, she is sure he is completely right, because his life will be an extraordinary effort and more perfect, but she was satisfied with a stable job, want another like women, talk about games you can love shopping and dinner and a movie. Her former boyfriend is very confused, he said angrily: how to do so unpromising future ah. can not say that he does not love her, he finally was concerned about her future He is a fear that their .
You see, we are independent of the two people, this is not a simple thing? However, why the first to let us confused, first of all is this it?
because we know that after the marriage is The two of us to rely on each other finish the rest of my life with, so we love becomes a rule, bound to each other, we destroy his independence, they would become vulnerable, dependent. Love is not independent of the rope, tied spent two people, back to back sink and forget the original direction.
often we describe the ideal time of marriage, would not consciously write: I want to hh, then, might as well think: I can give De.
in the process of give and take, and we truly feel the taste of happiness.
you can start writing: I want to get what kind of love, I need someone to love me how to, What are the things he did I would be particularly happy, and what things he has done I will be very angry, I will turn even a mention.
Again, I can give each other anything, what I will way to love a person, in front of the man, he is my love happy? He do not really like those things, but because I have been put up?
clearly write down your and different attitudes and ideas, can coexist coexistence
not deny, we must keep in mind that. family life, not the East Eats West is overwhelming westerly wind, such a rule for the feudal society, a get together with people all day, the power struggle as the focus of work and life. And we live in modern society, work is our focus, if we have a strong marriage, we must keep fighting for their own benefit and keep the other side concessions until give up, you will find that this marriage can not create a happy man, with his original happy you will be clean and consumption.
coexistence need to bottom line, you need to know that there is anything, is even if only time will not be forgiven. You can not suppress their grievances, you can not take the patient in exchange for peace, or if you floor it becomes a threshold, and no one can cross. hyacinth is a gentle and loving wife, her husband has a bad habit, often drunk, act in defiance, and gradually gathering of friends do not want to take him, we do not want to see a good person to spread from the drunken babbling, wrapped up and no one person completed downtown, more frightening is that he will have to drive, how to persuade will not work, and had to rush over hyacinths from home, with his home.
hyacinth drinking any alcohol, she heard someone else's down-to nausea, but her husband came home every night to go pick voiced a complaint, including clean up his vomit. him the next day sober, and will become good. You will forgive me I will be better after mm sober, make up to break the bottom line of the dissatisfaction felt hyacinth have a happy marriage, until one morning she received a phone call, her husband drinking and driving, by was seriously injured.
She is a doting mother, has been indulging him, she did not floor in front of him, even the basic principles are not, we always think it is true love. there is domestic violence in the same woman, a times beaten back time and time again, the reason is that only then will humble man, would give her enough dignity, so she can carry the scars and bruises of life back in, stick to the next beating.
Without the love of principle and of right and wrong, of course, will make people feel sweet, but the result of indulgence is getting worse.
water lily Miss bossy boyfriend, she totally love listening to her beck and call as soon as he was against the she was crying: you do not love me anymore. she contacts the longest time boyfriend, underwear from the washing to do PPT file, all for her single-handedly, there are times to meet her boring boyfriend, send text messages, just because she SMS did not timely respond, she begins to trouble the dozen. coax her boyfriend, coax is not good, to do housework, she is still downtown, corner down her underwear and socks for my boyfriend finally collapsed, You spoiled! spoil me, love me, you should not say that I was right or wrong. Otherwise, they will not love me.
adhere to put the water lily lady as spouse, she decided that she would do her love slaves in life, she is not a good person to get along, never know what others think have anything to do with her. self and selfishness, there is only a thin line. difference is that people be very careful not to self-harm to other people's territory , and the people for their own selfish interests, ignoring the feelings of others.
selfish marriage is terrible, because you only focus on their needs, while ignoring the other half, you put to each other as a You can sacrifice the principle of love all people, so you can ride roughshod, do whatever they want, no bottom line, such a relationship would be a problem sooner or later.
on in their bottom line, we will find that in fact is a really good live things, we can tolerance, love each other ailments disadvantages, we will find that they are generous, the original order to love, we can pay more.
Ms. Tulip marriage that her husband's daily routine is totally different now, she used to get up early, a man accustomed to staying up late, they quarrel over this, even germination of the idea for divorce. Finally, she also bought a bed, her own bedroom in the early hours, to be a hard-working lark, the husband can also When inspiration came to work overnight and will not be invited to ask the three four-bed catalyst. At the same time, she would in some morning, went to his bedroom to kiss her husband and told him to get up to eat breakfast, her husband Some nights will be accompanied her, as she slept and then went to work.
to wait until night, and quiet, until a smooth writing program, he used to do that. Then I forget sub-bed, sub-bed is not separated, at least I can have a good sleep, he can free. colleagues in the popular husband the envy of the programmer, because they were forced his wife to sleep with men, it is a lot.
and disadvantages ah, I love to buy perfume, and more expensive dare to start, he never said that I, also helped me to collect. habits can be adjusted, as long as we have decided to live together, if we decided to bring happiness as the only goal.
inconsistent concepts, we can agree a consistent approach, for example
1, a good talk to listen to each other , do not interrupt, do not criticize;
2, after listening, the first to seriously think about, say their own ideas;
3, without irony, contempt, impatient, sarcastic tone towards the other half hh;
just to say the beginning, she said, was that he laughed, and later can not say . I continue to ask: What is your ideal marriage, in the end look like?
She was silent for children: that is, two people had properly chanting hh.
I still continue to ask her. At last she said: the house to There are several rooms, two people can have a separate space to dry all the things that two people weekend activities to some, to the suburbs to play, a Man that he can share some of the housework, hygiene, willing to participate cleaning.
her request is not a bit excessive, but her ex-husband do not want to cooperate with her, he likes to sleep late watching TV to play games, do not like to go to the suburbs, that housework is a woman thing, it does not matter to her.
they are for these chores, arguing for two years, finally breaking up. the start there is not no love, her ex-husband bought her jewelry, never stingy to buy new clothes, she has never been out of control over his party to send, and she ate was a good thing also remember to give him back, I remember her in-laws every month phone calls.
between them there is no money, what she wants, he can not give her to him, he feel nothing, because he also paid the same, and also good to her, and she told him the good you do not it should be?
after she finished with me, and said: I never said that the ideal marriage with others What, I think this thing can not force, force is also boring.
However, if your ideal, but your heart a good personal secrets, then how do you make the other half of you have a thorough understanding, he does not understand You need to accept your needs, how can you have a beautiful life together?
We are not for the words live together, has been to create life, and go and enjoy the happiness.
before marriage, let's ask each other, your ideal of marriage, what it was like, this is necessary.
what you need, I need what we understand each other's needs after the marriage of the imagination, will gradually implement.
modern marriage, is not as simple as food and shelter, work at home, we need a comfortable, safe, warm little world, but not picky, shirk, dirty, lazy, these things, destroyed more than marriage, the marriage will destroy your confidence.
Therefore, to emphasize once again: We have another person in order to keep up with married life We're going to make a life and enjoy happiness together as parents, along with health, happiness, strong to finish this long life.
we have already recognized, or is forced to admit, the reality is the most important , always yield to the reality of life, the ideal of this stuff, but young and frivolous, between the ideal and the reality, there will always be gaps, and we dare not say that, through efforts, in fact, can achieve the ideal, the ideal can become reality. < br> Because we are afraid, afraid to face the cruel reality, idealism is just a floating joke.
because we are afraid that after repeated efforts to get or failure, or will it farther and farther from ideal.
However, you have not thought about marriage is that we can not give up one of the most ideal as it will with your life, for us once in a lifetime, life is forever.
we are worried for their studies, to work distress, in order to dress distress, in order to work in the A or B to work in the interests of gain and loss calculations forever, we have to buy a dress from the texture to the price of refined over and over, however, love a person, together with a person, we are decisions are often made quickly.
enlighten us take the case himself: This is the feelings, emotions can not be so mean, there must be love, conditions almost on the line, then he will become good, the house is not something marriage can buy, something he did not mind, can develop after marriage.
you give up this ideal has become the first step.
we do not want to face the differences, we act for the love that is totally dedicated to accept difference, think this is love, and think this is a marriage should make sacrifices.
actually did not.
difference is the reason why we become ourselves and not someone else's cause. your other half is not enough Well, he just not the same as you.
Unfortunately, once we started dating, they will put two people as one. beautiful verses, often from the fact that: you'm missing, like he wanted to get away tears, he was asleep, but also Mozhao growling teeth, your heart can Liuzhuokoushui hh exchange for it? can exchange just fine.
our hearts, not a U disk, which record is not so easy to whom to read, even if your partner does not work.
not deny the ideal existence, the ideal is that we want to have a life, why be ashamed to admit?
Ouqi their repeated until the future, intertwined, it is better to tell him in advance: I want this, that there is this, I do not like that and that, I hate the most is that I will never accept is another.
(call for convenience, I have taken here one woman mentioned the names of the flowers, in fact, everyone is a flower.) Camellia
my friend, her husband hates her mention him every day: what to wear certain colleagues today, what to wear, what certain cosmetics colleagues recently, when certain students gathered about what the acquisition of .
first he fully understand those brands, and the second he felt she was too vain, trivial, and the third hurt his pride, he thought she meant to say: how do we can not afford, how do we then poor?
kind of disgusted look and he stimulated her, she would say, the more trouble the more she said. until the last quarrel.
fact, the camellia's mind is simple, she wanted him to understand these things are a gift from their husbands mm a gift she really wanted, of course, out of vanity, she also wanted some good things, so she put these two mixed mm she wanted her husband to her buy a lot of good things, it is better she likes, some big things.
her hope that he will pay attention to her speak, her words could be interested, can then ask her words: Oh, that what has happened, there are so OK? you like it, that I bought you so?
Camellia said: even if he does not buy, just to say that is good too, at least, so I am happy happy hh
This is often committed by a woman error, we always feel that he should understand that such a simple matter of course, how can he not understand.
But men just do not understand, he must wait for you to tell him: I am a woman, a woman like a gift, send little gift to me I would be happy to send anything, you can see this magazine's luxury directory, above address, and the price, pay attention: you can buy much cheaper in Hong Kong.
is not it funny? But this is the reality , between man and woman to receive the information asymmetry has been exaggerated to you live I live in Venus, Mars, Earth mm that what you do is Safari?
before marriage, and your marriage to each other with a description of the ideal marriage, is a good thing, allowing you to find many hidden ahead of time differences, you can advance to think about how to solve.
second question: How big is your ideal marriage gap
assume that you have very well to tell the other side, his ideal of what marriage is, assuming you have not talked and talked to a falling out, and no despise each other's little good. Suppose your own ideals, made it very clear, going to be fine to have a couple of houses, the children room to have several windows and the like.
can be hundred percent sure, you and his mind the ideal of marriage are two different things, even though you high similarity to the screen are the same, then there will be the difference between 3D and plane.
Do not cry, do not despair, do not be angry, here once again reminded that you are two completely different people. two people even describe the same thing, not like the say, not to mention your writing about the ideal classroom.
let alone talk about the ideal life to no avail. talk about the ideal, at least in advance so you can see, your marriage will be easy to go wrong in those places .
peach of my classmates, even those of us friends all know that her greatest wish is to go a few places, taking advantage of young, tourism travel. She is very determined to tell her husband to go out every year after marriage .
her husband is not without promise, promise very well. Basically, Peach said, after all the things about the marriage, he promised well, and she asked him if the idea, he said: listen to your .
it is very sweet, you heard the other half said so, is it? In fact it?
In fact, this is a perfunctory, this is not a reality before the arrival, will not do perfunctory any consideration and commitment. travel need the money, takes time, but also mood, he does not think about these things, because that was not his problem, he just let her happy happy, do not want to consider this issue carefully.
marriage did not go on a trip once a peach, is not enough money, he did not want to go, he just tell her: I did not mind, I work very tired, I'm busy weekend I have to work overtime.
them to this fights many times, until finally, his true thoughts come: my parents at home so hard, I have the nerve to go out and play?
Peach said: then we took them out to play, you can not?
they get older great, better than giving money.
less but we did not give Boyd?
short this problem not been resolved, only a small peach ideals shattered after marriage. She thought of divorce more than once. She is also gradually understand that the ideal marriage of her husband: The best arrangement is to follow his wife, do not have any additional costs, the money saved, to the parents. He was very fair and gave both parents.
However, this is not Peach life you want. Marriage is not to make money, save money, save down to the parents that simple life she wanted, exciting than this.
talk on the ideal marriage, he is not too superficial than you? he Is impatient and said: so many pieces do? so many things can you want to know? forget Well, you heard it, all I have to obey his wife.
lot of men because women emotional, afraid to speak their true thoughts, and, he has many ideas, they would feel too much, but after marriage he would think to do so, because those ideas in his heart, has been entrenched.
Peach husband's idea, if we can describe it would be this: We want to make money, and I the last decade the main goal is to make money, make money for the purpose of filial piety, filial piety is lots of money, both parents are. also Yes, we want to save money, and in the future have children spend a lot of money, is money in case we get sick. enjoy life that has nothing to do with me and enjoy life a waste of money, squandered love you women, I do one way or another.
he not wrong, from the appearance point of view, he is a simple, tall, very thoughtful man, really listen to peach, then you can quit smoking for her every day washing dishes, a little bitter that he was born, so the money very seriously It is also normal.
problem is ideal for both of them, not only a huge difference, but is not compatible. He never praised her new clothes, he never gave her flowers, he heard the tour to do not look.
So, you really need to know what his vision is, you do not mind his temper tantrums, threatened to go back, if you really want to marry him, you need to check first your Ideal gap between how much? large to what extent?
your understanding of happiness, and if not, at least not to undermine each other. If we say that for him, all the money is being saved, then you go to mountain happy to see the water to exist, and similarly, if you go out to travel, to realize their ideals, for him, your , you can make much sacrifice?
Peach problem is very simple, as long as the expense of her husband a little money, little time on it, who apart from a business trip, did not walk where they couple not low income That money is not bad, her husband is not so busy, even a weekend not get it out.
in principle, but he felt that, in principle, can not yield, yield to you once you will have a second, that this continues to save any money.
awful? her marriage really do not know what he thought so, she really thought he would totally listen to her.
them into another marriage, a situation stalemate, stalemate is the relationship continues, the two continued on in various family obligations, but has nothing to do with happiness.
which her husband is not what he used to the simple days of dull, peach argument is : this continues, I'm not dead, that is crazy.
you can say that the ideal peach is too high, blame Why does not she ask for less, you can sympathize with her, why is met such people. you can sympathize with the peach husband, he could not see the smiling faces of his wife, their happy I'm afraid it is difficult.
the gap between the ideal, at any time there is more conflict, because these gaps caused, unfortunately, we learned that even though we had pre-marital This person told us how different, or illusions, he will change it? marriage will change him? me to pay some, perhaps he will get better, right?
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another pair of common story of husband and wife, and asparagus-law relationship is encountered. She certainly does not include the ideal of marriage with her mother live together, but because of the insistence of her husband, her concessions, the result-law can not get along, divorce.
them statement of the ideal marriage is the same: for the house, for cars, will raise children, how are families, we all have jobs, how ever bad? no special requirements, two people are really, do not pay attention to the small atmosphere What little atmosphere, and all want to live well, taking advantage of the young in recent years to do better business.
naturally expect that such a common goal, after getting married should be able to form a nice small family, happy I will not speak, at least very stable.
they did not consider the third person, but a life, have lost their freedom.
these, but also you can not think of marriage, can not see. We are the ideal scenario, too vague, and we always feel that life can not be set so clear, we see car and house parents are dead, it is a joke.
sentence jokes are rude, very snob, but this description is clear. If we are the ideal scenario, can be compressed into a slogan or a slogan, perhaps more than it more brutal, more snobbish.
mother is not bad, divorce bears also say, she just feel she is good for children.
bears say that they are trivial ground of confidence, wanted to treat the elderly, her mother was sad, that divorce is all his fault, I would not ever be together with her son. son of bears, said: I did not let you have a good skill, after you find a better the bar.
What is more sad than this, we are good, we even understand each other's difficulties, but we just can not live together, in particular, could not live in a marriage relationship.
s three questions: how to describe your ideal marriage
summarize it, we know that in the ideal of marriage should talk about your marriage, in talking about the ideal of marriage, it should understand each other's gaps, these differences will directly affect us to modify and adjust their own ideal of marriage, after all, two people can marry, the future rules of the game, it is best taking into account the ideal of two people.
is not to say that my ideal, I have to get, even if at the expense of the front of the people at another, it is the only happiness? Or, for him, I can be sacrificed, ignored, glad to see him happy, I happy?
extreme is never happy, it kinds of impulsive and wild, it will kill your reason, it will hurt hurt yourself. love you, he will not want to give you a good idea; and not you, even as his own ideal of the ideal, the loss of self, people are not necessarily appreciate.
the premise that we really love, really in good faith to face later in life. I think you will not talk about with her hair of the master of your ideal marriage, if you're Friends said that his parents might have said, but you should tell him to say the most, with that love you, you sure love him, the father of your future, your life partner, told him that said about your ideal marriage.
JM said a lot of the thread, communication is very important. with a lot of things, we know that is important, but to do, really hard.
we feel, the couple silly discussion, the discussion of marriage as one thing, in particular, seem silly, trivial premarital put the marriage first to get all the desktop, but also as something to discuss, it is simply hh
However, We're very serious deposited mask, we tirelessly about gossip, we see from the TV series is a look at an hour, we chatted shopping eating hair, as a lot of time spent, spent, like energy.
we prefer to do these, but also do not want to discuss before marriage marriage, together with the other half do not want to advance to face those troubles and predictable differences in advance to think about the solution.
it is only because we are afraid of conflict, we are afraid of that, we As with the previous occurrence of fear of losing control of the fight, our hearts knew how he sometimes kind of person, but also counting on him to change after marriage you can see, we look forward to married life, let the track, the best you left to track up to our ideal of marriage.
This is not really possible. a lot of marriages, but we paid the price in order to understand and see through a person can understand what we really want. we must wait until all the fantasy are shattered, all contradictions are broke, we learned that the original decision was a mistake. perhaps very beautiful, you love, eat, drink are catered to, but you do not have any problems with the considered, the views of any specific things are inconsistent . Error is wrong, love is not wrong, but in the name of love, barely adhere to their own hopeless relationship is wrong.
is that you what the ideal of marriage, the more detailed the better, in fact, so you meet people you are ready to marry, your ideals will close with the actual step by step, until the blend.
then you will in a few words in passing, as written in the beginning of the friend : that two people had ah well.
not so simple, you have to elaborate, the process you describe the ideal marriage, in fact, you really need is you understand the process, it is definitely not a word or two can be explained clearly .
lot of people do not understand themselves, and not good at one thing to describe, clarify their own ideas, then you need to give yourself time to tell myself that this is what you should do more than beauty, weight loss, are important things.
course, we can unwittingly get married, we can put all the good men who are on, maybe we met a nice guy, really happy to finish this life. However, on the street so many men, which one would come up, give it your ideal? even if there were such people, to love you as his highest ideal, his own ideals, who should the Compensation?
So, you still sit down and a cup of tea, talk about it to begin with their own good, listen to the voice of your heart, the ideal of marriage, in fact, has never been far.
basis of an ideal marriage: What are you going to get kind of love and sacrifice.
I think the marriage of love, we must first independent of each other and respect each other's independence, and can open their minds frankly, after which is communication, understanding, trust, pity, tolerance, love of comfort is not a hh
violent destruction of > such as sunflower President, she inherited her mother's tradition, like all domination, like do not ask each other to make decisions in advance, and her other half has been received and silent, one day suddenly broke out, because she always when he wants to rest , family gossip and talked on his ears and automatic filtering usually choose to sleep in the past to hear when she is once again time taken the trouble to shake him, she felt that this is civilization, between husband and wife, effective communication. she was a man do a loss outbreak, and then she began to fight back the power of ten times, listing himself as he did everything. sense of failure.
there, Ms. Rose and her boyfriend is very aggressive, and he spends a lot of time in work and study, she suggested a little entertainment and relaxation, will be despised him, and he also asked She went driving test, test qualification training, foreign language classes, he has a sense of crisis that must be flourishing life is correct. Rose finished the qualification examination, had obsessive-compulsive disorder, she was always afraid of myself to forget what life arrangements She was afraid of phone suddenly rang, he shouted over there: Did you go to school, ah, ah Do not waste fees!
we love, we so into the marriage, but we always separate the two Who can not replace who live. our parents in that generation of people who inherited a weakness is: because of love, put themselves and their children confused, we do not consciously played the role of parents and children. I love you, I done a lot for you, so you have to listen to me. I love you, I was right, so you have to obey me.
I love you, you against me, that hurt me, just do not love me.
kind of thinking, is a precursor to destroy happiness. whether it is their lack of independence, or force the other side to give up independence, so that your marriage will become thorny road, you will be very confused, very hurt, very angry, because you All for love, but I do not know true love, is common to grow, mature, and not to your requirements, to arrange everything.
Miss Xiang Rikui marriage continues, she learned is: do not sleep in the Pro bother him before, when he was a bad temper, she was replaced by open forum at the dinner table, her daily experience, there must be a listener, whether he is listening not listening. She often told us: my so and so, is so boring, very quiet.
she did not know, Mr. X is the best debater in the university, with students gathering, he always jokes to make everyone laugh, said the man.
he right to speak to to her, willing to play a silent man, in exchange for peace. He actually did not like the exchange, but she never thought any other way. When he has anything to say, when she interrupted him, always wander somewhere else.
marriage he thought she was lovely, a girl's innocence, he was tired of marriage, accept their fate, and accept the marriage is staid affair.
Miss Xiang Rikui with many a woman, do not know, do not want to accept what was originally a man, she has always been willing to create the .
Ms. Rose left her boyfriend, she is sure he is completely right, because his life will be an extraordinary effort and more perfect, but she was satisfied with a stable job, want another like women, talk about games you can love shopping and dinner and a movie. Her former boyfriend is very confused, he said angrily: how to do so unpromising future ah. can not say that he does not love her, he finally was concerned about her future He is a fear that their .
You see, we are independent of the two people, this is not a simple thing? However, why the first to let us confused, first of all is this it?
because we know that after the marriage is The two of us to rely on each other finish the rest of my life with, so we love becomes a rule, bound to each other, we destroy his independence, they would become vulnerable, dependent. Love is not independent of the rope, tied spent two people, back to back sink and forget the original direction.
often we describe the ideal time of marriage, would not consciously write: I want to hh, then, might as well think: I can give De.
in the process of give and take, and we truly feel the taste of happiness.
you can start writing: I want to get what kind of love, I need someone to love me how to, What are the things he did I would be particularly happy, and what things he has done I will be very angry, I will turn even a mention.
Again, I can give each other anything, what I will way to love a person, in front of the man, he is my love happy? He do not really like those things, but because I have been put up?
clearly write down your and different attitudes and ideas, can coexist coexistence
not deny, we must keep in mind that. family life, not the East Eats West is overwhelming westerly wind, such a rule for the feudal society, a get together with people all day, the power struggle as the focus of work and life. And we live in modern society, work is our focus, if we have a strong marriage, we must keep fighting for their own benefit and keep the other side concessions until give up, you will find that this marriage can not create a happy man, with his original happy you will be clean and consumption.
coexistence need to bottom line, you need to know that there is anything, is even if only time will not be forgiven. You can not suppress their grievances, you can not take the patient in exchange for peace, or if you floor it becomes a threshold, and no one can cross. hyacinth is a gentle and loving wife, her husband has a bad habit, often drunk, act in defiance, and gradually gathering of friends do not want to take him, we do not want to see a good person to spread from the drunken babbling, wrapped up and no one person completed downtown, more frightening is that he will have to drive, how to persuade will not work, and had to rush over hyacinths from home, with his home.
hyacinth drinking any alcohol, she heard someone else's down-to nausea, but her husband came home every night to go pick voiced a complaint, including clean up his vomit. him the next day sober, and will become good. You will forgive me I will be better after mm sober, make up to break the bottom line of the dissatisfaction felt hyacinth have a happy marriage, until one morning she received a phone call, her husband drinking and driving, by was seriously injured.
She is a doting mother, has been indulging him, she did not floor in front of him, even the basic principles are not, we always think it is true love. there is domestic violence in the same woman, a times beaten back time and time again, the reason is that only then will humble man, would give her enough dignity, so she can carry the scars and bruises of life back in, stick to the next beating.
Without the love of principle and of right and wrong, of course, will make people feel sweet, but the result of indulgence is getting worse.
water lily Miss bossy boyfriend, she totally love listening to her beck and call as soon as he was against the she was crying: you do not love me anymore. she contacts the longest time boyfriend, underwear from the washing to do PPT file, all for her single-handedly, there are times to meet her boring boyfriend, send text messages, just because she SMS did not timely respond, she begins to trouble the dozen. coax her boyfriend, coax is not good, to do housework, she is still downtown, corner down her underwear and socks for my boyfriend finally collapsed, You spoiled! spoil me, love me, you should not say that I was right or wrong. Otherwise, they will not love me.
adhere to put the water lily lady as spouse, she decided that she would do her love slaves in life, she is not a good person to get along, never know what others think have anything to do with her. self and selfishness, there is only a thin line. difference is that people be very careful not to self-harm to other people's territory , and the people for their own selfish interests, ignoring the feelings of others.
selfish marriage is terrible, because you only focus on their needs, while ignoring the other half, you put to each other as a You can sacrifice the principle of love all people, so you can ride roughshod, do whatever they want, no bottom line, such a relationship would be a problem sooner or later.
on in their bottom line, we will find that in fact is a really good live things, we can tolerance, love each other ailments disadvantages, we will find that they are generous, the original order to love, we can pay more.
Ms. Tulip marriage that her husband's daily routine is totally different now, she used to get up early, a man accustomed to staying up late, they quarrel over this, even germination of the idea for divorce. Finally, she also bought a bed, her own bedroom in the early hours, to be a hard-working lark, the husband can also When inspiration came to work overnight and will not be invited to ask the three four-bed catalyst. At the same time, she would in some morning, went to his bedroom to kiss her husband and told him to get up to eat breakfast, her husband Some nights will be accompanied her, as she slept and then went to work.
to wait until night, and quiet, until a smooth writing program, he used to do that. Then I forget sub-bed, sub-bed is not separated, at least I can have a good sleep, he can free. colleagues in the popular husband the envy of the programmer, because they were forced his wife to sleep with men, it is a lot.
and disadvantages ah, I love to buy perfume, and more expensive dare to start, he never said that I, also helped me to collect. habits can be adjusted, as long as we have decided to live together, if we decided to bring happiness as the only goal.
inconsistent concepts, we can agree a consistent approach, for example
1, a good talk to listen to each other , do not interrupt, do not criticize;
2, after listening, the first to seriously think about, say their own ideas;
3, without irony, contempt, impatient, sarcastic tone towards the other half hh;
Wednesday, February 23, 2011
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Tuesday, February 22, 2011
Period of time. Stop and go
That day. A large number of graduates leave school. Most of the people, is sad.
Beautiful youth, so quietly is over. graduation, when leaving, vivid.
from kindergarten to high school graduation, no one remembers when there is such a sad graduation. as if she really is not goodbye. is not really goodbye.
, after a school day after the procedure. I and his favorite people together.
the bus, I thought, he sat beside me, holding my hand.
internship sites opposite, I thought, he would be there for me, walk with me.
food shop, I used to think I take their food to him, quietly listening to him.
God or the love of my . I want to leave, he let my fantasy become a reality.
so I have an idea, if not graduate, if there next time, how wonderful.
the last night before leaving We meet after an argument, that moment, he just hugged me.
I feel, he is actually more sad than I am. Otherwise, he will not start the car the next day, when in fact he told me love me.
I always remember these images. clearly visible. Seems like yesterday.
car, the rain, that person, there is that first song is not finished.
stuck in my memory. like my shadow.
{July. I took my tired body back to the nearest city from the clouds. trying to forget.}
desperately looking for work, trying desperately to make money make yourself busy.
So, bought countless newspapers, went to numerous job market, investment and countless resumes.
time passion, so I'm not even surprised. I want to work so What.
numerous interviews, I chose the first job. a language school teacher training schools.
busy working, choking the atmosphere, so I understand the so-called paid advertising is not so easy to get .
I endured a lot of gossip, to suffer a lot of fun, put a lot of people look arrogant.
for the first time, then close see through society. resignation expected.
the end of July. I quit . got a few hundred dollars of wages. heart actually some happy.
Next, do not know where to go. I suddenly like a broken kite string, want to go the distance.
walk in the streets of downtown Kunming , I appeared illusion. I saw him. but it is not.
so I think of him more than once when a sudden his picture out of a closer look, I miss you.
the original, not heavy The work can make people forget. if you really love, then who can not hold back.
that time, has been recorded in words. I think that as long as written, saying it would not be sad.
However, I can not control how my heart. I miss a person, to suffocate the point.
If, in July of my life with one word to describe it is suffering.
{August. through the mountains. just to meet you.}
go Nanning to buy a train ticket. I own and deeply shocked that such a move.
never thought of for whom, and so desperate. Then think about it, I've already desperate.
in those hours on the train, I have been looking forward to, meet would be like.
suddenly flew at a time to meet his arms, or saw him, burst forth with tears and laughter.
but my expectation is wrong. Hou in out of the station, I did not see the familiar shadow. he did not come pick me up.
mind a little disappointed Although he has delayed things, but the heart, or the slightly sad.
I am a man looking for a place to live. I am a man, walking in the familiar streets.
that moment I was thinking , he is not to buy tickets back to school. familiar feel and incomprehensible.
I packed all the time, downstairs in the hotel, he saw a long absence.
that moment, I do not know expression is. just pretend it quiet.
I saw him carrying a big bag, he tells me he will always be with me.
heart ten thousand happy to see him, finally know what is waiting in the end.
few days. I'm happy. happiness. We eat together. sleep together. went shopping together. with playing video.
night Nanning, extraordinarily beautiful. night Yong Jiang, we are playing on the bridge slapstick.
he said. go home Oh, you want to live well. that moment I wanted to say, I do not leave you a good or bad.
he said. the future we will not meet again the. that moment I thought a month ago, I asked him when we'll see.
time with him. rapidly in the past. I finally go. That day, they began to rain.
as if he were to see me off, that they will began to rain. Then came the sunshine. is to tell us that a rainbow after the storm What.
on the train, he sat quietly with me. Later, we nothing did not say.
those who talk nonsense words. We do not say, because there is no need to have a.
back to Kunming, the time is six o'clock the next morning. day was dark. lamp lit, but also The bus did not go home.
I am a man went to McDonald's. sitting there for a long time, as if it happened, was a dream.
I do not think the travel fatigue. I even naive that as long as he needs, I can go.
a person loves another person to this point, is not it also regrets the death.
{September. I finally restored calm. I finally to see open. some time, still stop and go.}
day after, plain and simple.'ve seen him since, my heart, suddenly quiet.
thoughts, not so obvious. I think I was slowly forgotten it. is not it will slowly do not love him.
was consulting a doctor to know, because to the extreme of. Oh, is it not the ultimate What think.
these days, began to go out with friends, started to follow people around. I do not want to find a man married up.
to find a job, is still a foreign language school teacher. but the opposite as before. Here I'm happy.
and colleagues to get along, I like to listen to them that their stories. and children together, I like to laugh on them.
they always ask me many questions, There are some, I really can not answer. I was the teacher who called, is the embodiment of the wise.
Today, they ask me, the teacher wears a ring Why do you not married yet. I did not think they would look at my fingers .
However, for this problem, I just smiled and said, because it is the teacher's talisman ah. Without it, the devil will be gone with the teacher.
my own interpretation for, almost to tears. but they convinced . They say, Oh, is blessed teacher.
But there who knows, I am wearing this ring, only because a promise.
this day is still living. Tomorrow is the Mid-Autumn Festival. I still to school. They need to face cute.
a lot of people ask me when will we meet. so far in the distance, I have no strength in the past.
I suddenly become lazy, I just to want to do alone. until I met a man love, take me away.
I suddenly do not struggle, I think, it is so realistic, very good. well.
water Lam.
20080913
Beautiful youth, so quietly is over. graduation, when leaving, vivid.
from kindergarten to high school graduation, no one remembers when there is such a sad graduation. as if she really is not goodbye. is not really goodbye.
, after a school day after the procedure. I and his favorite people together.
the bus, I thought, he sat beside me, holding my hand.
internship sites opposite, I thought, he would be there for me, walk with me.
food shop, I used to think I take their food to him, quietly listening to him.
God or the love of my . I want to leave, he let my fantasy become a reality.
so I have an idea, if not graduate, if there next time, how wonderful.
the last night before leaving We meet after an argument, that moment, he just hugged me.
I feel, he is actually more sad than I am. Otherwise, he will not start the car the next day, when in fact he told me love me.
I always remember these images. clearly visible. Seems like yesterday.
car, the rain, that person, there is that first song is not finished.
stuck in my memory. like my shadow.
{July. I took my tired body back to the nearest city from the clouds. trying to forget.}
desperately looking for work, trying desperately to make money make yourself busy.
So, bought countless newspapers, went to numerous job market, investment and countless resumes.
time passion, so I'm not even surprised. I want to work so What.
numerous interviews, I chose the first job. a language school teacher training schools.
busy working, choking the atmosphere, so I understand the so-called paid advertising is not so easy to get .
I endured a lot of gossip, to suffer a lot of fun, put a lot of people look arrogant.
for the first time, then close see through society. resignation expected.
the end of July. I quit . got a few hundred dollars of wages. heart actually some happy.
Next, do not know where to go. I suddenly like a broken kite string, want to go the distance.
walk in the streets of downtown Kunming , I appeared illusion. I saw him. but it is not.
so I think of him more than once when a sudden his picture out of a closer look, I miss you.
the original, not heavy The work can make people forget. if you really love, then who can not hold back.
that time, has been recorded in words. I think that as long as written, saying it would not be sad.
However, I can not control how my heart. I miss a person, to suffocate the point.
If, in July of my life with one word to describe it is suffering.
{August. through the mountains. just to meet you.}
go Nanning to buy a train ticket. I own and deeply shocked that such a move.
never thought of for whom, and so desperate. Then think about it, I've already desperate.
in those hours on the train, I have been looking forward to, meet would be like.
suddenly flew at a time to meet his arms, or saw him, burst forth with tears and laughter.
but my expectation is wrong. Hou in out of the station, I did not see the familiar shadow. he did not come pick me up.
mind a little disappointed Although he has delayed things, but the heart, or the slightly sad.
I am a man looking for a place to live. I am a man, walking in the familiar streets.
that moment I was thinking , he is not to buy tickets back to school. familiar feel and incomprehensible.
I packed all the time, downstairs in the hotel, he saw a long absence.
that moment, I do not know expression is. just pretend it quiet.
I saw him carrying a big bag, he tells me he will always be with me.
heart ten thousand happy to see him, finally know what is waiting in the end.
few days. I'm happy. happiness. We eat together. sleep together. went shopping together. with playing video.
night Nanning, extraordinarily beautiful. night Yong Jiang, we are playing on the bridge slapstick.
he said. go home Oh, you want to live well. that moment I wanted to say, I do not leave you a good or bad.
he said. the future we will not meet again the. that moment I thought a month ago, I asked him when we'll see.
time with him. rapidly in the past. I finally go. That day, they began to rain.
as if he were to see me off, that they will began to rain. Then came the sunshine. is to tell us that a rainbow after the storm What.
on the train, he sat quietly with me. Later, we nothing did not say.
those who talk nonsense words. We do not say, because there is no need to have a.
back to Kunming, the time is six o'clock the next morning. day was dark. lamp lit, but also The bus did not go home.
I am a man went to McDonald's. sitting there for a long time, as if it happened, was a dream.
I do not think the travel fatigue. I even naive that as long as he needs, I can go.
a person loves another person to this point, is not it also regrets the death.
{September. I finally restored calm. I finally to see open. some time, still stop and go.}
day after, plain and simple.'ve seen him since, my heart, suddenly quiet.
thoughts, not so obvious. I think I was slowly forgotten it. is not it will slowly do not love him.
was consulting a doctor to know, because to the extreme of. Oh, is it not the ultimate What think.
these days, began to go out with friends, started to follow people around. I do not want to find a man married up.
to find a job, is still a foreign language school teacher. but the opposite as before. Here I'm happy.
and colleagues to get along, I like to listen to them that their stories. and children together, I like to laugh on them.
they always ask me many questions, There are some, I really can not answer. I was the teacher who called, is the embodiment of the wise.
Today, they ask me, the teacher wears a ring Why do you not married yet. I did not think they would look at my fingers .
However, for this problem, I just smiled and said, because it is the teacher's talisman ah. Without it, the devil will be gone with the teacher.
my own interpretation for, almost to tears. but they convinced . They say, Oh, is blessed teacher.
But there who knows, I am wearing this ring, only because a promise.
this day is still living. Tomorrow is the Mid-Autumn Festival. I still to school. They need to face cute.
a lot of people ask me when will we meet. so far in the distance, I have no strength in the past.
I suddenly become lazy, I just to want to do alone. until I met a man love, take me away.
I suddenly do not struggle, I think, it is so realistic, very good. well.
water Lam.
20080913
Monday, February 21, 2011
(To) high school history summary of important conclusions
Important conclusions of high school history summary (Chinese history)
one reason (root) factors critical condition
1. Cause social life of Beijingers have production capacity of the main reasons for the low
2. Private ownership, the direct cause of the production The development of products with the remaining
3. appears the root cause of private ownership of the development of productivity
4. gentile community development by the maternal parent of the main reasons for the man gained the ascendancy in production
5. Xia appears the root causes of development of productive forces as well as the relations of production corresponding to the generation of
8. Duke to become overlord of the main reasons for the implementation of the Spring and Autumn Period Guan Zhong reform, Qi economically powerful
9. Warring States period, the vassal state to carry out political reform the root cause of the feudal movement emergence and development of private ownership of land
10 Warring States Period, wars, and to develop social and economic root causes are still feudal production relations established
11. Warring States period, the replacement of feudal direct cause of slavery political reform in emerging landlord class
12. Legalist thought in the Warring States Period by the rulers of the main emphasis is conducive to strengthening the rule of the rulers
13. Shang Yang fundamental reason for the success of the development trend of the times
14. Qin was able to unify China's economic strength, the main reason most
15. forcing Chen Sheng and others in the main reason for the uprising Daze Heung harsh law, misuse of when the cut
16. Chu Liu to win in the competition between subjective reasons for people to pledge allegiance, military strategy right
17. Han emperor to take a respite because the objective of social policy is poverty
18. Kuan Shu Han rulers adopted the policy lessons of the king of the direct cause of
19. the early Western Han Dynasty implementation of the rulers, feudal forces enhance
21. Han Dynasty to the implementation of the Group of Eastern Han Dynasty warlord began Separatist natural source of the feudal economic form
24. Cao Cao to the decisive conditions for a unified focus on northern areas of agriculture, ensure the supply of rations
25. Battle of Red Cliff in the coalition to win the most important of Liu and Sun Liu and Sun alliance against Cao reasons
26. Three Kingdoms three root causes of the situation appears relatively independent of economic development into a regional balance of power
27. Soochow times the main reason for the development of South Central Plains culture war, the north who migrated to the south < br> 28. Han Dynasty to the Western Jin Dynasty the main northern ethnic minorities move into the Central Plains culture, a large number of advanced
29. the Western Jin Dynasty to the situation of the main reasons for the formation of a unified economic recovery and development of the north, power, and the South decline
30. Southern and Northern Dynasties, metaphysics has become a trend, Buddhism prevailed, resulting in the most important reason for this phenomenon social unrest
31. Western Jin Dynasty unified the root causes of short-lived decay of the powerful family in power, the royal family for power
32. Wei Xiao Emperor Han reform introduced a number of policies that can promote the root cause of the north appears the trend of national fusion
33. hem Expedition reason for the failure to recover the Central Plains to the court did not give strong support
34. Sima Rui to establish the Eastern Jin Dynasty in the south are the main reasons for the support of the landlord gentry
35. Battle of the Former Qin defeated the unpopular rule of the most important reason for the Former Qin
36. Former Qin defeated Battle of the subjective reasons Discrete morale, lack of morale
37. hem Northern Expedition, the Battle of reunification are the common causes of failure to complete lack of a unified economic base
38. the outcome of the Battle of the factors that people play a decisive role to support or oppose
39. lead to the root causes of land equalization policy implementation Northern economic form of advanced
40. form the ideological style of Tao Qian's pastoral roots is satisfied with the
41. Dong Jin Zhinan towards the end of dynasties frequently, political the main reason for instability in general squad to seize power
42. the late 5th century AD, northern farmer's production and living the main reason for the relatively stable government vigorously Land Equalization
43. Jiangnan Wei, the rapid development of agriculture the main reason for working people in the north south
44. fusion of ancient Chinese ethnic people of all the underlying causes of long-term economic and cultural exchanges
45. Sui Grand Canal of the most important economic objective reasons for the growing importance of South < br> 46. Sui and Tang dynasties since the rule by virtue of using the imperial examination system, the fundamental reason is to consolidate authoritarian imperial system is conducive to the status of
47. Sui and Tang dynasties, Chinese culture, bright, light neighbors, then the most culturally developed the root causes of national prosperity and economic prosperity
48. Taizong satisfied remonstrance to the main lessons learned to accept death Sui
49. Tang grand foreign relations of the root causes of the unprecedented economic and cultural world leader
50. promote Tang towards the direct cause of Yangzhou extremely prosperous transportation hub
51. Tang mid-Land Equalization main reason for not implementing the economic development of feudal land ownership
52. annexation of land since the mid-Tang Dynasty serious, the Government may be granted five fields its roots in the feudal economy to develop
53. Tang Mansion Army System recruiting to replace the root causes of the destruction of land equalization policy
54. Tang Interim Military the root cause of the excessive powers of the military system defects
55 . Rebellion before the Tang Dynasty Emperor government to ignore the direct cause of corruption affairs, reuse bad
56. Tang Shih most fundamental cause of the outbreak of the uniformed soil damage caused defects in the military system
57. Tang Dynasty to the implementation of the two tax the main reason for it to adapt to the economic development of the feudal manor
58. Two tax is a major change in the tax system in ancient China, the main reason is that it changed the tax standard
59. Tang and the late Eastern Han Dynasty peasant uprising the same reason eunuch
60. The direct cause of Tang dynasty led to disparate administrative regions
61. cause there during the Rule of the economic conditions of most farmers have some land and production time
62. Governance 64. the formation of the Five Dynasties and Ten States Pan Tang split situation of the root causes of the continuation of the town of separatist
65. Five Dynasties and Ten Kingdoms Period, the South prerequisite for rapid economic development, social safety
66. Northern Song Dynasty, the root cause of there business notes Frequent
67. cause confrontation Song and Kim after the meeting because of Shaoxing and gold to obtain the vast region north of the Huaihe River
68. Song with more than 50 countries and regions have a commercial relationship, because of its important shipbuilding technology greatly improve the
69. medium-term fiscal crisis led to the root of the Northern Song Dynasty brought in measures to strengthen the centralized
70. Five Dynasties and the Song of China's foreign economic and cultural exchanges since the direct cause of land and sea-based war led to the Northwest during the Five Dynasties and the Song land trade disruption
71. Yuan Dynasty selling until the development of Yangtze River estuary to the sea between the main focus of the national economy in the south
72. Yuan Dynasty, the strengthening of national integration the main reason to further national unity
73. in the late Ming Dynasty, some local produce southern budding capitalist commodity economy the most important conditions for unprecedented prosperity
74. the late Ming Dynasty, eunuch is very serious, leading to the historical phenomenon of the root causes of the existence of feudal autocracy
75. Zheng He and the smooth completion of the main reasons for farming development, national prosperity
76. Shang Yang advocated the root causes of social and economic changes in the structure
77. Ming and Qing Dynasties produce the main anti-feudal democratic ideas the rapid development of commodity economy
78. Emergence of Capitalism in the Early Qing root causes of the slow development of an increasingly decadent feudal system
79. Tuerhute the root cause of the reunification strong national consciousness driven
80. Qing Qianlong during the main reason for the disappearance of Soongsil Man Style Network tight, people Ziwei
81. Business The main reason for her to continue the reign of social and economic development
84. Yuan Songjiang became the main center of the cotton spinning industry, the textile surface of Huang Daopo reform tool
85. promote human primitive society than the direct cause of settled life, the development of primitive agriculture
Second, the purpose of target intention intention
1. Qiheng Gong that > 3. Shangyang Reform implementation of the the beginning of the implementation of the fundamental purpose of the policy shall comfortable and stable rule
6. Emperor promulgated the purpose of the Kingdom of the manor split
8. Zhongshu that s
10. Emperor Xiaowen direct purpose of land equalization policy reform to ensure the implementation of the Northern Wei government revenue
11. The fundamental purpose of reform of Emperor consolidate the rule of the people of the Yellow River Basin
12. the reform of Emperor Han received the subjective purpose of the advanced culture
13. Qiandouluoyang Emperor Xiaowen of the fundamental purpose of strengthening the control of the Yellow River Basin
14. Sui, The System of the implementation of the main scientific purpose of the rule of the ruling class to expand the basis of
15 . Tang government regulations can be satisfied that the silk farmers labor on behalf of the farmers to ensure that the main purpose of production time
16. Taizong attention to the fundamental purpose of the employer is satisfied that maintenance of remonstrance dominance
17. the late Tang Dynasty to implement the main purpose of the two tax increase government revenue
18. Five Dynasties and Ten Kingdoms lot more emphasis on the development of power production and the purpose of saving power
19. Brought reign, to take
20. Yuan emphasis on domestic land sea transport, the main aim of effective jurisdiction unprecedented vast territory
21. Yuan government to develop water transport and shipping, the main purpose to solve most of the food supply
22. Yuan Government attaches importance to domestic land sea and land transport, the direct purpose is to obtain food supplies south
23. Qin, developed to the clan commune period was marked by blood relations to maintain a stable population
3. Spring and Autumn period of government the most significant features of feudal hegemony and feudal system collapsed
4. Spring and Autumn period, social productivity was significantly improved signs of iron Use
5. Qinjian Li of the essential characteristics of a centralized autocratic imperial supremacy
6. marks the direct events Qin Dynasty division side bypass, Liu Beijing
7. Eastern Han Dynasty and the previous ratio, its political prominent characteristic of despotic landlord privileged
8. Sixteen States Period marks the end of the Northern Wei Dynasty unified the Yellow River flows City
9. Dynasties period, China's economic development north of the salient features of agricultural production and ethnic Society, North-South trend of balanced economic development
10. regime change in the characteristics of the Southern generals seize power
11. Jiedushi after the Tang Dynasty set, the characteristics of domestic politics in the form of light outside the re-formation of the situation
12. Five of five dynasties when the common North military generals to usurp power characteristics of self-reliance
13. Song of the most prominent feature of strengthening the centralization of power weakened local forces
14. salient features of the Ming Dynasty set up to strengthen authoritarian plant health secret service
15. a whip is different from the two tax characteristics of the most historic tax levy discount silver
16. in the late Ming Dynasty, some places south of capitalist relations of production, characterized by local families that have money, loom, opening room for domestic workers to produce
17. Ming Dynasty, China is seeing the seeds of capitalism, its essential characteristic is the employment of labor relations
18. Ming culture, new age, which mainly refers to the anti-feudal democratic ideas have
19. zicheng uprising of farmers to a new level of war, a sign of reach land system
20. Qing ethnic relations pre-main features of safeguarding national unification and national unity and oppose foreign aggression, contact with
four, the real essence of nature < br> 1. Han Fei Zi real democratic regime opposition
4. Southern and Northern Dynasties and the Song and Yuan Dynasties process of national integration, economic development point of view is essentially the process of ethnic agriculture
5. Sui Dynasty imperial examination system to create, in essence is the quest for talent, the need to expand basic rule
6. the imperial examination system to implement, in essence reflects the feudal system is improving, when social and economic development, changes in class relations
7. Early and mid-term modulation of the implementation of rent-yung the same double-tax real partial adjustment of feudal relations of production
8. War, Battle of Red Cliff, the Battle of fertilizer similar to the role of the evolution of the political situation at that time played a decisive role in
2. Emperor Xiaowen of reform, the most important of all ethnic groups in the north of Inland accelerate the transformation of the feudal relations of production
3. Sui six provinces of the system has been improved since the Qin Dynasty centralized system, the positive significance of the central agencies have a clear system of division of labor and improve efficiency
4. Tang Dynasty, the direct effect of the two tax relief center Government's financial difficulties
5. Two tax in place, the impact of weakening the role of most farmers on the feudal state of relations of personal dependence
6. Sui Grand Canal play a major role in promoting North-South economic exchanges
7. Song sent around the management of transport so that the main role of local financial loss to local economic conditions separatist
8. Chanyuan Alliance maintains the largest of the two sides of a century of peace and friendship between the situation
9. Wang Anshi highlight the effect of a certain extent, reverse the poor economic situation of weak
10. Yuan Dynasty canals solved the Yuan Dynasty the primary role of the food supply
11. stereotyped admitted as the direct effect of the Emperor's loyal servant training
12. with the silver collection of the late Ming society's most profound impact on the promotion of handmade products, agricultural products and the commercialization of
13. Qing Dynasty set up the Taiwan government's most important to safeguard national sovereignty and territorial integrity of
important conclusions Center high school history (History of Modern China. on)
one reason (root) key factors
1, the British smuggling of opium to the Chinese direct cause: to reverse the trade deficit with China.
2, opium war, make the The direct cause of: the transformation of Chinese society the principal contradiction.
4, led to occurrence of the most important reason Taiping: feudalism, the contradiction between the people and the general public.
5, the direct cause of the outbreak of the Taiping movement: the organization of worship God launched.
6, resulting in the implementation of such programs do not have the social conditions and class basis.
8, the powers in 1853 that Tarim war.
9,19 century, 60 years, the Qing government with a temporary foreign forces The fundamental reason: Westernization own class limitations, only the introduction of Western technology, not radical reform of the feudal system.
11, the Chinese proletariat before the main causes of the bourgeoisie: the invasion of capitalism, the birth of foreign enterprises in China proletariat.
12, the Chinese national bourgeoisie has a dual character of the underlying causes: the social nature of semi-feudal China.
13, China's first national industry mainly in the coastal areas the underlying causes: the economic disintegration of the earlier natural , conditions are ripe for the development of capitalism.
14, the early reformers and the Westernization of the main reasons for the end of each go their separate ways: the class different attributes.
15, the reason why the reform movement to replace the Westernization Movement play a leading role in politics, and its The main reason is: The Chinese national capitalism has been initially developed.
16, the root causes of the rise of Reformation Movement: the initial development of national capitalism, the national crisis deepened.
17,19 end of the century, thought to be from a Constitutional Reform and Modernization become a key political movement: Reformers and the Reformation Movement combine survival and salvation.
18, br> 19,19 turn of the 20th century, to carve up China set off a wave of imperialism, the root cause: to enter the stage of imperialism, the enormous development of productive forces, an urgent need to win the colonial bourgeoisie.
20, the Yellow Sea after the war, the Northern Fleet the main reason for loss of aircraft: Li ordered that meet the enemy at sea.
21,19 turn of the 20th century, Western colonizers export large amounts of capital to China for economic root causes of aggression: the main capitalist countries the transition to the stage of imperialism.
22,19 turn of the 20th century, foreign aggressive forces failed to divide completely destroy China, and its subjective reason: the Chinese people to resist.
23, the Boxers by the Qing government, after the first use of repression, the fundamental reason is: Boxer's understanding of Chinese and foreign reactionary forces in the perceptual stage.
24, the Boxers were anti-pre-event, and then put forward the The main reason: the Boxer movement is still the old peasant war.
26, feudal society, Chinese peasant revolution ended in failure root causes: the natural economy egalitarian ideas generated by the decision of the peasant revolution of the narrow-mindedness.
27, until the early Qing Dynasty, China has not the root cause of the outbreak of the bourgeois revolution: the Ming and Qing seeds of capitalism has failed to develop into a true capitalist economy.
28,19 of the 20th Century decision development direction of Chinese history domestic basic factors: the development of national capitalism in China.
29,20 century, bourgeois democratic revolutionary ideas gradually become the mainstream of social thought, the fundamental reason: the development of national capitalism in China.
30,20 century, China the right way in many regions struggle to recover the underlying causes: national capitalist economic development.
31, the Qing dynasty, the New Deal attempts to preserve and expand their power, but led to the demise of a dynasty, a result of the underlying causes: the New Deal did not touch on the social contradictions in China.
32, the Chinese People's Protection Movement launched the most fundamental reason: The Qing government the right to sell the railway construction to imperialism. < br> 33, was able to win the Wuchang Uprising, the key factor is: the revolutionary enthusiasm and initiative soldiers.
34, Revolution of the root causes of failure: the weakness of the bourgeois and compromise.
35 , the Hundred Days Reform and Revolution, the bourgeoisie are required to save the nation, the result both of which failed, and the fundamental reasons: the weakness of the bourgeois and compromise.
36, China's Reform and revolution led by the bourgeoisie failed fundamental reason: national conditions, not fully developed capitalism, or capitalist forces small.
37, the root causes of the failure of the Taiping movement: the limitations of the old peasant uprising.
38, the Qing government to implement Preliminary Constitutional deficit.
2, the British open ports.
4, the Qing Dynasty set up the fundamental purpose of Yamen: conform to the needs of foreign invaders.
5, yau coup, the Western powers to abandon the Objective: To strengthen the control of the Qing government.
6, the Western powers to help the Qing government repression of the fundamental purpose of Taiping Heavenly Kingdom: to preserve and expand the interests of aggression against China.
7, the fundamental purpose of the Westernization Movement: suppression of the Taiping movement, while changing the military backwardness, to protect the rule of the Qing Dynasty.
8, during the Westernization Movement, founder of the Steamship Westernization immediate purpose: to make profits, with the military industry.
9, Westernization Movement late hit Westernization ; pursuit of wealth Partat conspiracy to split China's territory.
11, Reform Movement One of the fundamental purpose: to save the national crisis.
12, the primary objective of the Hundred Days Reform: national salvation.
13, fight imperialism after the Sino The fundamental purpose of China's creditors to do: control the economic lifeline.
14,19 century war powers, the Qing government loans to the main purposes: to expand influence in China.
15, United States in China to implement the that the main intent: to occupy the Chinese market.
16, supervision.
17, Qing Qing government to implement
Third, the role of the outcome results of the consequences of
1, play the major role of God Worship: to mobilize the masses to participate in anti-intifada.
2, Hong established the objective of God Worship role played: the impact of Confucianism thinking of legitimacy.
3,19 century, 60's, Westernization of Chinese companies set up social and economic impact: the introduction of a new large-scale machine production, productivity.
4, Sino-French War The direct consequences: China gave up the protection of Vietnam.
5, .
8,1899 in the United States proposed the arrogance plan.
10,1911, the Qing government monarchy.
IV features characterized century mark
1,19 40,50's invasion of China by Western powers, performance features: The main direct armed aggression.
2, and the peasant wars in the past ratio, the Taiping Rebellion new features of the times: while aggression against feudalism, large modern industrial machinery, are the product of semi-feudal society in China.
4,19 60,70 century, the rise of capitalist enterprises in China, its most essential features are: bureaucrats, landlords, businessmen and other private investment.
5, the Qing government action to adapt to the significant modernization of characteristics: lack of initiative, is forced, action is slow.
6, and the imperial examination system than under the official school, run by the Westernization Movement in the new school features: feudal officials not to train for the purpose.
7, compared with the early reformers, Kang Liangwei new style features: there are some people carried out based on political reform movement.
8, compared with the Reformation Thoughts to Sun Yat-sen as the representative of the characteristics of the bourgeois revolutionary idea: A more complete revolutionary program.
9, economic characteristics: the powers control the economic lifeline of China, the Chinese economy is the disintegration of the natural, but still.
10, the establishment of Yamen marks: The Qing government agencies began to semi of the Central.
11,19 Century 70 Chinese national symbol of capitalism: part of the merchants, landlords and bureaucrats started to invest in new industries, with the national nature of the modern capitalist enterprises emerged.
12, the Chinese bourgeois democratic revolution marked the beginning of the campaign event: the Revive China Society establishment.
13, marks the establishment of the Revive China Society: China to send the initial formation of the bourgeois revolution.
14,19 conflicts 20th century Britain and Germany to become the main contradiction between the imperialist countries, while in China Specific performance: Rent Jiaozhou and Weihai has strong health.
15, the Chinese bourgeois democratic revolution into a new phase of the signs: the establishment of a national unity party.
16, the Qing government, signs of bankruptcy fraud: the birth of a bourgeois republic regime.
19, a sign of the Northern warlords regime was established: the interim government moved the capital to Beijing.
20, marking the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom, the Qing government formally established the phase of confrontation with the power of peasants events: capital in Tianjing .
five, the real essence of the nature of
1, serious limitations of small-scale peasant.
3, to the perspective of development of productive forces, the substance of the Westernization Movement: The machine production to replace manual labor.
4, pre-modern times, China's foreign wars and more failed, the trend of historical development, the outstanding performance of the real problem: lost to corrupt social system advanced social system.
5, the substance of the Hundred Days Reform: the struggle against the bourgeoisie and the feudal forces.
6, open door Autocratic.
important conclusion of High School History Center (History of Modern China. under)
one reason (root cause) the key factors that precondition
01, Revolution, the Democratic Republic of the In practice, the two thought was the root cause of frustration: China is a semi-feudal society (or National Capitalism is not sufficient)
02, After the Revolution, the Chinese people continue to explore advanced way of salvaging the country and the truth The underlying reason is: proletariat grow
03, causing the main fruit of Yuan Shikai wins Revolution: the weakness of the bourgeois revolutionaries and compromise
04, the restoration of the monarchy, and Zhang Xun Yuan quickly restore the monarchy failed primary reasons; against the trend of social development (or the deeply rooted idea of a democratic republic after the Revolution)
05, Yuan Shikai, the rapid restoration of the monarchy the root causes of Defeat: betrayal and the restoration of unpopular
06, China's political reform and democracy, led by the bourgeoisie have been the root cause of failure of the revolution: the development of capitalist economy, lack of
07, shortly after the end of Qing rule, the Northern warlords there a direct cause of the situation: a serious weakening the central government (or the imperialist divide and rule policy)
08, Zhang restoration of the root causes of Xun: Revolution is not complete
09,20 anti-feudal century, China the development of national industries have objective reasons: imperialism temporarily relaxed economic aggression against China
10, Modern Chinese Nationalism Capitalism economic development, but ultimately the root cause of failure to thrive: the constraints of modern Chinese society
11, the direct cause of the New Culture Movement: ruler of ancient Confucian set off upstream
12, the New Culture Movement to oppose the directed against the traditional Confucian morality underlying causes: the feudal rule of Confucianism is to maintain the theoretical basis of
13, the First World War period, China's subjective reasons of national economic development: After the Revolution, Industrial salvation becomes a trend
14 , after the failure of Zhang Xun Restoration, Duan refused to resume revolution from the old democratic revolution to the new democratic revolution changed the most fundamental factor: the development of national industries and workers stage of the expansion teams (the further development of national capitalism)
17, a primary victory in May Fourth Movement, the root cause: the working class to play The role of the main force
18, Sun accepted the CPC the root causes of political opinion against imperialism and feudalism: Stick to the position of the Democratic Revolution
19, the old Three People's Principles developed the most important reason for the new Three People's Principles: Sun, etc. people are targets of the revolution, the revolutionary forces have to rely on new understanding 20,1924, the KMT-CPC cooperation to realize the root cause: the overthrow of the Northern Warlords became the common struggle against the two parties target
21, the second revolution failed The direct cause of: KMT forces lax
22, Sun Yat-sen's Three Principles of the new democratic revolution and the CPC program are the root cause of the principle of distinction: class position different
23, the direct cause of the May Fourth Movement: May 1925, Shanghai in care workers in Japan are red capitalists shot atrocities
24, Hong Kong general strike was the direct cause: to support Shanghai's anti-imperialist struggle
25, Chinese workers appear first direct cause of the climax: China's labor secretary portfolio establishment of the Department
26, National Revolution to the rapid development of the revolutionary situation in the fundamental reasons: a reliable guarantee for the united front
27, the Northern Expedition into the root causes of the victory: Revolutionary United Front
28, the Northern Expedition basic Down with the Warlord, but the cause of democracy once again elusive: Chiang Kai-shek on behalf of landlords, the big bourgeoisie interests, betrayed the revolution
29, for Sun in terms of ideology from the West to the United Soviet school Lord ...
one reason (root) factors critical condition
1. Cause social life of Beijingers have production capacity of the main reasons for the low
2. Private ownership, the direct cause of the production The development of products with the remaining
3. appears the root cause of private ownership of the development of productivity
4. gentile community development by the maternal parent of the main reasons for the man gained the ascendancy in production
5. Xia appears the root causes of development of productive forces as well as the relations of production corresponding to the generation of
8. Duke to become overlord of the main reasons for the implementation of the Spring and Autumn Period Guan Zhong reform, Qi economically powerful
9. Warring States period, the vassal state to carry out political reform the root cause of the feudal movement emergence and development of private ownership of land
10 Warring States Period, wars, and to develop social and economic root causes are still feudal production relations established
11. Warring States period, the replacement of feudal direct cause of slavery political reform in emerging landlord class
12. Legalist thought in the Warring States Period by the rulers of the main emphasis is conducive to strengthening the rule of the rulers
13. Shang Yang fundamental reason for the success of the development trend of the times
14. Qin was able to unify China's economic strength, the main reason most
15. forcing Chen Sheng and others in the main reason for the uprising Daze Heung harsh law, misuse of when the cut
16. Chu Liu to win in the competition between subjective reasons for people to pledge allegiance, military strategy right
17. Han emperor to take a respite because the objective of social policy is poverty
18. Kuan Shu Han rulers adopted the policy lessons of the king of the direct cause of
19. the early Western Han Dynasty implementation of the rulers, feudal forces enhance
21. Han Dynasty to the implementation of the Group of Eastern Han Dynasty warlord began Separatist natural source of the feudal economic form
24. Cao Cao to the decisive conditions for a unified focus on northern areas of agriculture, ensure the supply of rations
25. Battle of Red Cliff in the coalition to win the most important of Liu and Sun Liu and Sun alliance against Cao reasons
26. Three Kingdoms three root causes of the situation appears relatively independent of economic development into a regional balance of power
27. Soochow times the main reason for the development of South Central Plains culture war, the north who migrated to the south < br> 28. Han Dynasty to the Western Jin Dynasty the main northern ethnic minorities move into the Central Plains culture, a large number of advanced
29. the Western Jin Dynasty to the situation of the main reasons for the formation of a unified economic recovery and development of the north, power, and the South decline
30. Southern and Northern Dynasties, metaphysics has become a trend, Buddhism prevailed, resulting in the most important reason for this phenomenon social unrest
31. Western Jin Dynasty unified the root causes of short-lived decay of the powerful family in power, the royal family for power
32. Wei Xiao Emperor Han reform introduced a number of policies that can promote the root cause of the north appears the trend of national fusion
33. hem Expedition reason for the failure to recover the Central Plains to the court did not give strong support
34. Sima Rui to establish the Eastern Jin Dynasty in the south are the main reasons for the support of the landlord gentry
35. Battle of the Former Qin defeated the unpopular rule of the most important reason for the Former Qin
36. Former Qin defeated Battle of the subjective reasons Discrete morale, lack of morale
37. hem Northern Expedition, the Battle of reunification are the common causes of failure to complete lack of a unified economic base
38. the outcome of the Battle of the factors that people play a decisive role to support or oppose
39. lead to the root causes of land equalization policy implementation Northern economic form of advanced
40. form the ideological style of Tao Qian's pastoral roots is satisfied with the
41. Dong Jin Zhinan towards the end of dynasties frequently, political the main reason for instability in general squad to seize power
42. the late 5th century AD, northern farmer's production and living the main reason for the relatively stable government vigorously Land Equalization
43. Jiangnan Wei, the rapid development of agriculture the main reason for working people in the north south
44. fusion of ancient Chinese ethnic people of all the underlying causes of long-term economic and cultural exchanges
45. Sui Grand Canal of the most important economic objective reasons for the growing importance of South < br> 46. Sui and Tang dynasties since the rule by virtue of using the imperial examination system, the fundamental reason is to consolidate authoritarian imperial system is conducive to the status of
47. Sui and Tang dynasties, Chinese culture, bright, light neighbors, then the most culturally developed the root causes of national prosperity and economic prosperity
48. Taizong satisfied remonstrance to the main lessons learned to accept death Sui
49. Tang grand foreign relations of the root causes of the unprecedented economic and cultural world leader
50. promote Tang towards the direct cause of Yangzhou extremely prosperous transportation hub
51. Tang mid-Land Equalization main reason for not implementing the economic development of feudal land ownership
52. annexation of land since the mid-Tang Dynasty serious, the Government may be granted five fields its roots in the feudal economy to develop
53. Tang Mansion Army System recruiting to replace the root causes of the destruction of land equalization policy
54. Tang Interim Military the root cause of the excessive powers of the military system defects
55 . Rebellion before the Tang Dynasty Emperor government to ignore the direct cause of corruption affairs, reuse bad
56. Tang Shih most fundamental cause of the outbreak of the uniformed soil damage caused defects in the military system
57. Tang Dynasty to the implementation of the two tax the main reason for it to adapt to the economic development of the feudal manor
58. Two tax is a major change in the tax system in ancient China, the main reason is that it changed the tax standard
59. Tang and the late Eastern Han Dynasty peasant uprising the same reason eunuch
60. The direct cause of Tang dynasty led to disparate administrative regions
61. cause there during the Rule of the economic conditions of most farmers have some land and production time
62. Governance 64. the formation of the Five Dynasties and Ten States Pan Tang split situation of the root causes of the continuation of the town of separatist
65. Five Dynasties and Ten Kingdoms Period, the South prerequisite for rapid economic development, social safety
66. Northern Song Dynasty, the root cause of there business notes Frequent
67. cause confrontation Song and Kim after the meeting because of Shaoxing and gold to obtain the vast region north of the Huaihe River
68. Song with more than 50 countries and regions have a commercial relationship, because of its important shipbuilding technology greatly improve the
69. medium-term fiscal crisis led to the root of the Northern Song Dynasty brought in measures to strengthen the centralized
70. Five Dynasties and the Song of China's foreign economic and cultural exchanges since the direct cause of land and sea-based war led to the Northwest during the Five Dynasties and the Song land trade disruption
71. Yuan Dynasty selling until the development of Yangtze River estuary to the sea between the main focus of the national economy in the south
72. Yuan Dynasty, the strengthening of national integration the main reason to further national unity
73. in the late Ming Dynasty, some local produce southern budding capitalist commodity economy the most important conditions for unprecedented prosperity
74. the late Ming Dynasty, eunuch is very serious, leading to the historical phenomenon of the root causes of the existence of feudal autocracy
75. Zheng He and the smooth completion of the main reasons for farming development, national prosperity
76. Shang Yang advocated the root causes of social and economic changes in the structure
77. Ming and Qing Dynasties produce the main anti-feudal democratic ideas the rapid development of commodity economy
78. Emergence of Capitalism in the Early Qing root causes of the slow development of an increasingly decadent feudal system
79. Tuerhute the root cause of the reunification strong national consciousness driven
80. Qing Qianlong during the main reason for the disappearance of Soongsil Man Style Network tight, people Ziwei
81. Business The main reason for her to continue the reign of social and economic development
84. Yuan Songjiang became the main center of the cotton spinning industry, the textile surface of Huang Daopo reform tool
85. promote human primitive society than the direct cause of settled life, the development of primitive agriculture
Second, the purpose of target intention intention
1. Qiheng Gong that > 3. Shangyang Reform implementation of the the beginning of the implementation of the fundamental purpose of the policy shall comfortable and stable rule
6. Emperor promulgated the purpose of the Kingdom of the manor split
8. Zhongshu that s
10. Emperor Xiaowen direct purpose of land equalization policy reform to ensure the implementation of the Northern Wei government revenue
11. The fundamental purpose of reform of Emperor consolidate the rule of the people of the Yellow River Basin
12. the reform of Emperor Han received the subjective purpose of the advanced culture
13. Qiandouluoyang Emperor Xiaowen of the fundamental purpose of strengthening the control of the Yellow River Basin
14. Sui, The System of the implementation of the main scientific purpose of the rule of the ruling class to expand the basis of
15 . Tang government regulations can be satisfied that the silk farmers labor on behalf of the farmers to ensure that the main purpose of production time
16. Taizong attention to the fundamental purpose of the employer is satisfied that maintenance of remonstrance dominance
17. the late Tang Dynasty to implement the main purpose of the two tax increase government revenue
18. Five Dynasties and Ten Kingdoms lot more emphasis on the development of power production and the purpose of saving power
19. Brought reign, to take
20. Yuan emphasis on domestic land sea transport, the main aim of effective jurisdiction unprecedented vast territory
21. Yuan government to develop water transport and shipping, the main purpose to solve most of the food supply
22. Yuan Government attaches importance to domestic land sea and land transport, the direct purpose is to obtain food supplies south
23. Qin, developed to the clan commune period was marked by blood relations to maintain a stable population
3. Spring and Autumn period of government the most significant features of feudal hegemony and feudal system collapsed
4. Spring and Autumn period, social productivity was significantly improved signs of iron Use
5. Qinjian Li of the essential characteristics of a centralized autocratic imperial supremacy
6. marks the direct events Qin Dynasty division side bypass, Liu Beijing
7. Eastern Han Dynasty and the previous ratio, its political prominent characteristic of despotic landlord privileged
8. Sixteen States Period marks the end of the Northern Wei Dynasty unified the Yellow River flows City
9. Dynasties period, China's economic development north of the salient features of agricultural production and ethnic Society, North-South trend of balanced economic development
10. regime change in the characteristics of the Southern generals seize power
11. Jiedushi after the Tang Dynasty set, the characteristics of domestic politics in the form of light outside the re-formation of the situation
12. Five of five dynasties when the common North military generals to usurp power characteristics of self-reliance
13. Song of the most prominent feature of strengthening the centralization of power weakened local forces
14. salient features of the Ming Dynasty set up to strengthen authoritarian plant health secret service
15. a whip is different from the two tax characteristics of the most historic tax levy discount silver
16. in the late Ming Dynasty, some places south of capitalist relations of production, characterized by local families that have money, loom, opening room for domestic workers to produce
17. Ming Dynasty, China is seeing the seeds of capitalism, its essential characteristic is the employment of labor relations
18. Ming culture, new age, which mainly refers to the anti-feudal democratic ideas have
19. zicheng uprising of farmers to a new level of war, a sign of reach land system
20. Qing ethnic relations pre-main features of safeguarding national unification and national unity and oppose foreign aggression, contact with
four, the real essence of nature < br> 1. Han Fei Zi real democratic regime opposition
4. Southern and Northern Dynasties and the Song and Yuan Dynasties process of national integration, economic development point of view is essentially the process of ethnic agriculture
5. Sui Dynasty imperial examination system to create, in essence is the quest for talent, the need to expand basic rule
6. the imperial examination system to implement, in essence reflects the feudal system is improving, when social and economic development, changes in class relations
7. Early and mid-term modulation of the implementation of rent-yung the same double-tax real partial adjustment of feudal relations of production
8. War, Battle of Red Cliff, the Battle of fertilizer similar to the role of the evolution of the political situation at that time played a decisive role in
2. Emperor Xiaowen of reform, the most important of all ethnic groups in the north of Inland accelerate the transformation of the feudal relations of production
3. Sui six provinces of the system has been improved since the Qin Dynasty centralized system, the positive significance of the central agencies have a clear system of division of labor and improve efficiency
4. Tang Dynasty, the direct effect of the two tax relief center Government's financial difficulties
5. Two tax in place, the impact of weakening the role of most farmers on the feudal state of relations of personal dependence
6. Sui Grand Canal play a major role in promoting North-South economic exchanges
7. Song sent around the management of transport so that the main role of local financial loss to local economic conditions separatist
8. Chanyuan Alliance maintains the largest of the two sides of a century of peace and friendship between the situation
9. Wang Anshi highlight the effect of a certain extent, reverse the poor economic situation of weak
10. Yuan Dynasty canals solved the Yuan Dynasty the primary role of the food supply
11. stereotyped admitted as the direct effect of the Emperor's loyal servant training
12. with the silver collection of the late Ming society's most profound impact on the promotion of handmade products, agricultural products and the commercialization of
13. Qing Dynasty set up the Taiwan government's most important to safeguard national sovereignty and territorial integrity of
important conclusions Center high school history (History of Modern China. on)
one reason (root) key factors
1, the British smuggling of opium to the Chinese direct cause: to reverse the trade deficit with China.
2, opium war, make the The direct cause of: the transformation of Chinese society the principal contradiction.
4, led to occurrence of the most important reason Taiping: feudalism, the contradiction between the people and the general public.
5, the direct cause of the outbreak of the Taiping movement: the organization of worship God launched.
6, resulting in the implementation of such programs do not have the social conditions and class basis.
8, the powers in 1853 that Tarim war.
9,19 century, 60 years, the Qing government with a temporary foreign forces The fundamental reason: Westernization own class limitations, only the introduction of Western technology, not radical reform of the feudal system.
11, the Chinese proletariat before the main causes of the bourgeoisie: the invasion of capitalism, the birth of foreign enterprises in China proletariat.
12, the Chinese national bourgeoisie has a dual character of the underlying causes: the social nature of semi-feudal China.
13, China's first national industry mainly in the coastal areas the underlying causes: the economic disintegration of the earlier natural , conditions are ripe for the development of capitalism.
14, the early reformers and the Westernization of the main reasons for the end of each go their separate ways: the class different attributes.
15, the reason why the reform movement to replace the Westernization Movement play a leading role in politics, and its The main reason is: The Chinese national capitalism has been initially developed.
16, the root causes of the rise of Reformation Movement: the initial development of national capitalism, the national crisis deepened.
17,19 end of the century, thought to be from a Constitutional Reform and Modernization become a key political movement: Reformers and the Reformation Movement combine survival and salvation.
18, br> 19,19 turn of the 20th century, to carve up China set off a wave of imperialism, the root cause: to enter the stage of imperialism, the enormous development of productive forces, an urgent need to win the colonial bourgeoisie.
20, the Yellow Sea after the war, the Northern Fleet the main reason for loss of aircraft: Li ordered that meet the enemy at sea.
21,19 turn of the 20th century, Western colonizers export large amounts of capital to China for economic root causes of aggression: the main capitalist countries the transition to the stage of imperialism.
22,19 turn of the 20th century, foreign aggressive forces failed to divide completely destroy China, and its subjective reason: the Chinese people to resist.
23, the Boxers by the Qing government, after the first use of repression, the fundamental reason is: Boxer's understanding of Chinese and foreign reactionary forces in the perceptual stage.
24, the Boxers were anti-pre-event, and then put forward the The main reason: the Boxer movement is still the old peasant war.
26, feudal society, Chinese peasant revolution ended in failure root causes: the natural economy egalitarian ideas generated by the decision of the peasant revolution of the narrow-mindedness.
27, until the early Qing Dynasty, China has not the root cause of the outbreak of the bourgeois revolution: the Ming and Qing seeds of capitalism has failed to develop into a true capitalist economy.
28,19 of the 20th Century decision development direction of Chinese history domestic basic factors: the development of national capitalism in China.
29,20 century, bourgeois democratic revolutionary ideas gradually become the mainstream of social thought, the fundamental reason: the development of national capitalism in China.
30,20 century, China the right way in many regions struggle to recover the underlying causes: national capitalist economic development.
31, the Qing dynasty, the New Deal attempts to preserve and expand their power, but led to the demise of a dynasty, a result of the underlying causes: the New Deal did not touch on the social contradictions in China.
32, the Chinese People's Protection Movement launched the most fundamental reason: The Qing government the right to sell the railway construction to imperialism. < br> 33, was able to win the Wuchang Uprising, the key factor is: the revolutionary enthusiasm and initiative soldiers.
34, Revolution of the root causes of failure: the weakness of the bourgeois and compromise.
35 , the Hundred Days Reform and Revolution, the bourgeoisie are required to save the nation, the result both of which failed, and the fundamental reasons: the weakness of the bourgeois and compromise.
36, China's Reform and revolution led by the bourgeoisie failed fundamental reason: national conditions, not fully developed capitalism, or capitalist forces small.
37, the root causes of the failure of the Taiping movement: the limitations of the old peasant uprising.
38, the Qing government to implement Preliminary Constitutional deficit.
2, the British open ports.
4, the Qing Dynasty set up the fundamental purpose of Yamen: conform to the needs of foreign invaders.
5, yau coup, the Western powers to abandon the Objective: To strengthen the control of the Qing government.
6, the Western powers to help the Qing government repression of the fundamental purpose of Taiping Heavenly Kingdom: to preserve and expand the interests of aggression against China.
7, the fundamental purpose of the Westernization Movement: suppression of the Taiping movement, while changing the military backwardness, to protect the rule of the Qing Dynasty.
8, during the Westernization Movement, founder of the Steamship Westernization immediate purpose: to make profits, with the military industry.
9, Westernization Movement late hit Westernization ; pursuit of wealth Partat conspiracy to split China's territory.
11, Reform Movement One of the fundamental purpose: to save the national crisis.
12, the primary objective of the Hundred Days Reform: national salvation.
13, fight imperialism after the Sino The fundamental purpose of China's creditors to do: control the economic lifeline.
14,19 century war powers, the Qing government loans to the main purposes: to expand influence in China.
15, United States in China to implement the that the main intent: to occupy the Chinese market.
16, supervision.
17, Qing Qing government to implement
Third, the role of the outcome results of the consequences of
1, play the major role of God Worship: to mobilize the masses to participate in anti-intifada.
2, Hong established the objective of God Worship role played: the impact of Confucianism thinking of legitimacy.
3,19 century, 60's, Westernization of Chinese companies set up social and economic impact: the introduction of a new large-scale machine production, productivity.
4, Sino-French War The direct consequences: China gave up the protection of Vietnam.
5, .
8,1899 in the United States proposed the arrogance plan.
10,1911, the Qing government monarchy.
IV features characterized century mark
1,19 40,50's invasion of China by Western powers, performance features: The main direct armed aggression.
2, and the peasant wars in the past ratio, the Taiping Rebellion new features of the times: while aggression against feudalism, large modern industrial machinery, are the product of semi-feudal society in China.
4,19 60,70 century, the rise of capitalist enterprises in China, its most essential features are: bureaucrats, landlords, businessmen and other private investment.
5, the Qing government action to adapt to the significant modernization of characteristics: lack of initiative, is forced, action is slow.
6, and the imperial examination system than under the official school, run by the Westernization Movement in the new school features: feudal officials not to train for the purpose.
7, compared with the early reformers, Kang Liangwei new style features: there are some people carried out based on political reform movement.
8, compared with the Reformation Thoughts to Sun Yat-sen as the representative of the characteristics of the bourgeois revolutionary idea: A more complete revolutionary program.
9, economic characteristics: the powers control the economic lifeline of China, the Chinese economy is the disintegration of the natural, but still.
10, the establishment of Yamen marks: The Qing government agencies began to semi of the Central.
11,19 Century 70 Chinese national symbol of capitalism: part of the merchants, landlords and bureaucrats started to invest in new industries, with the national nature of the modern capitalist enterprises emerged.
12, the Chinese bourgeois democratic revolution marked the beginning of the campaign event: the Revive China Society establishment.
13, marks the establishment of the Revive China Society: China to send the initial formation of the bourgeois revolution.
14,19 conflicts 20th century Britain and Germany to become the main contradiction between the imperialist countries, while in China Specific performance: Rent Jiaozhou and Weihai has strong health.
15, the Chinese bourgeois democratic revolution into a new phase of the signs: the establishment of a national unity party.
16, the Qing government, signs of bankruptcy fraud: the birth of a bourgeois republic regime.
19, a sign of the Northern warlords regime was established: the interim government moved the capital to Beijing.
20, marking the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom, the Qing government formally established the phase of confrontation with the power of peasants events: capital in Tianjing .
five, the real essence of the nature of
1, serious limitations of small-scale peasant.
3, to the perspective of development of productive forces, the substance of the Westernization Movement: The machine production to replace manual labor.
4, pre-modern times, China's foreign wars and more failed, the trend of historical development, the outstanding performance of the real problem: lost to corrupt social system advanced social system.
5, the substance of the Hundred Days Reform: the struggle against the bourgeoisie and the feudal forces.
6, open door Autocratic.
important conclusion of High School History Center (History of Modern China. under)
one reason (root cause) the key factors that precondition
01, Revolution, the Democratic Republic of the In practice, the two thought was the root cause of frustration: China is a semi-feudal society (or National Capitalism is not sufficient)
02, After the Revolution, the Chinese people continue to explore advanced way of salvaging the country and the truth The underlying reason is: proletariat grow
03, causing the main fruit of Yuan Shikai wins Revolution: the weakness of the bourgeois revolutionaries and compromise
04, the restoration of the monarchy, and Zhang Xun Yuan quickly restore the monarchy failed primary reasons; against the trend of social development (or the deeply rooted idea of a democratic republic after the Revolution)
05, Yuan Shikai, the rapid restoration of the monarchy the root causes of Defeat: betrayal and the restoration of unpopular
06, China's political reform and democracy, led by the bourgeoisie have been the root cause of failure of the revolution: the development of capitalist economy, lack of
07, shortly after the end of Qing rule, the Northern warlords there a direct cause of the situation: a serious weakening the central government (or the imperialist divide and rule policy)
08, Zhang restoration of the root causes of Xun: Revolution is not complete
09,20 anti-feudal century, China the development of national industries have objective reasons: imperialism temporarily relaxed economic aggression against China
10, Modern Chinese Nationalism Capitalism economic development, but ultimately the root cause of failure to thrive: the constraints of modern Chinese society
11, the direct cause of the New Culture Movement: ruler of ancient Confucian set off upstream
12, the New Culture Movement to oppose the directed against the traditional Confucian morality underlying causes: the feudal rule of Confucianism is to maintain the theoretical basis of
13, the First World War period, China's subjective reasons of national economic development: After the Revolution, Industrial salvation becomes a trend
14 , after the failure of Zhang Xun Restoration, Duan refused to resume revolution from the old democratic revolution to the new democratic revolution changed the most fundamental factor: the development of national industries and workers stage of the expansion teams (the further development of national capitalism)
17, a primary victory in May Fourth Movement, the root cause: the working class to play The role of the main force
18, Sun accepted the CPC the root causes of political opinion against imperialism and feudalism: Stick to the position of the Democratic Revolution
19, the old Three People's Principles developed the most important reason for the new Three People's Principles: Sun, etc. people are targets of the revolution, the revolutionary forces have to rely on new understanding 20,1924, the KMT-CPC cooperation to realize the root cause: the overthrow of the Northern Warlords became the common struggle against the two parties target
21, the second revolution failed The direct cause of: KMT forces lax
22, Sun Yat-sen's Three Principles of the new democratic revolution and the CPC program are the root cause of the principle of distinction: class position different
23, the direct cause of the May Fourth Movement: May 1925, Shanghai in care workers in Japan are red capitalists shot atrocities
24, Hong Kong general strike was the direct cause: to support Shanghai's anti-imperialist struggle
25, Chinese workers appear first direct cause of the climax: China's labor secretary portfolio establishment of the Department
26, National Revolution to the rapid development of the revolutionary situation in the fundamental reasons: a reliable guarantee for the united front
27, the Northern Expedition into the root causes of the victory: Revolutionary United Front
28, the Northern Expedition basic Down with the Warlord, but the cause of democracy once again elusive: Chiang Kai-shek on behalf of landlords, the big bourgeoisie interests, betrayed the revolution
29, for Sun in terms of ideology from the West to the United Soviet school Lord ...
Sunday, February 20, 2011
Local Chinese Literature and Utopian Disillusion
Utopia (Utopia) and the historical practice of discourse is an important clue to human cultural history, Inevitably, writers in various ways either explicitly or implicitly to be made on the subject said. Compared with the West, Eastern utopian imagination and what design features of their own? This paper published in 2003 by Yan No. 6 , its meaning is ) of the earlier It is a closed self-sufficient presence, while the this is beyond the space outside of time and history of making it a paradise.
spatial isolation is that early utopian works of Western characteristics, such as Moore Utopia is described by the New World Heath Loti found in the Americas, and Bacon (Francis Bacon) In the history of Western modernity as a time of increasingly evolving concept. In Jameson (F. Jameson) there, hh So the new historical action to create a memorial instead of r l l temporal spatial nostalgia r forward (future) to see logo Eastern traditions with modern Western ideal of paradise to the utopian idea of the sense of the difference. from the super timing. In Dream Decline of the literature about the real and historical fables. China is similar to the Western concept of utopia is about the birth of the late Qing Dynasty, which is based on Kang's Although Kang's social ideal is more access to resources from the traditional thought, but the specific form of 7.
but in the 20th century, 20 years Feiming novel , that is, from the poetic culture in China's own traditional aesthetic utopia. It is the continuation of several thousand years of Chinese poetry as a poetic tradition of the country, waste name in the novel created a hauntingly poetic world . its idyllic atmosphere, particularly reminiscent of Tao's . of the real eyes closed, and in constructing a utopian fantasy here Tianchou hh, mountain, water, trees, villages, Teenage, North Korea, Eve, has a layer of misty hazy color, yet also seemed like a dream paradise. This This book lead the reader into the world is a paradise l r. Utopia is the east, in this sense, the symbolic schemata While Western traditions provide another utopian idea, but did not form a utopian literary tradition, not as works of Moore as the West since the utopia of an ideal society for a detailed description nuanced. at this point , Kumar (Krishan Kumar) doubt that the Chinese have a real utopia, does make sense. However, despite utopian form of literary fiction, but more important feature is its meaning and content. Or create a local park with oriental forms of waste were created ; motif, showing a real and concrete things, but only by means of the traditional world of Review can really be, this is the utopia of the past waste of names. This is the last of the Tao of paradise is still a historical continuation of the traditional 11. until the 21st century Today's The birth, immediately aroused the universal concern of Chinese literature. It appeared in the Chinese contemporary novels a rare utopian dimension of discourse and practice, provides a worthy in my opinion, the inherent visual novel: This is the Living, was a great migration. HU Da immigration minister then on they have to repay the grace of charity rake a deep groove in the mountain columbine disabled dumb mother, answered her plea, promised to move the team unable to move the blind father and son to stay paralyzed , : Aquilegia rake this mountain gully, the water enough soil and fertilizer, you have a grain of silver to live by farming it here the product of immigration, but it's from scratch but no different from a creation myth, and then became a haven for people with disabilities. My life was like in heaven, neighbors eight villages, and even neighboring counties neighboring county are owned by people with disabilities will come The Great Migration, originally feudal dynasty to the world and all the people into their territory to be reworked and the planning process, but by living it strange village to escape from this process out into a world of parties themselves, become disabled paradise. The founding myth of Living, a village in the beginning to the official history and legends of the way real to the enemy, the sound and incomplete, domination and escape, bound and free, national, and autonomy themes unite in struggle together, it also indicates the After a long course of history intertwined with state power, the relationship between the statutes.
composed entirely of persons with disabilities of the world, and almost all the villagers uncanny pregnant, and these differences are intrinsic sound normal (novel called disability, have a round by round living but does not have the specific function of the amazing, that in itself is an amazing idea. novel factors associated with the important concept of Utopia, is about the disabled and the the dialectical: only to get yourself disabled, in order to become subject to the living. ordinary people wishing to enter this utopia, we must first put yourself into a disability. Disability is into this world passes, novels by living through those years, and the magistrate Eagle County Magistrate Liu birds today are only obtained by way of self-harm by living in a right to live. legendary magistrate would rather cut off the hand of one of his sound, but also in what he described as paradise by living to stay, not only that, he also worried that their child is a circle round: blind to the outside world, Hu Chuang swing, and that he will suffer. . Disability is a sin, it is also self-salvation. precisely because of disability, was able to Ruwutuobang the door, the disability itself is salvation possible. and the novel in the can not enter by the living world, or a round-round because of its properties. disability and circle round and therefore the dialectic, a fable with a color, but also to make this utopia the world has had a surreal charm person's breath 12. important dimension of the concept of utopia. novel attempt to convey the idea: it is incomplete, it created a fundamental not satisfactory; it is not complete, so is the paradise on earth. , natural utopia Yan together with the defects. This is a mockery of the theme of Utopia. It is this mockery of the local means Yan classic utopian utopian ideas and the difference lies.
village on the disabled living paradise by the history and legends the world, mainly in the novel do the loom of a their unique living village where vocabulary, showing the historical background of village life by giving an account of people's identity and experience. The existence of the floc comments made by way of the part also constitutes the main body of the novel, many parts are independent Chengzhang Xu Yan, and Xu Yan turned around the same time in the way comments floc derived from the new words, which to assimilate a huge traction out of the history of a complicated network of space-time. Of course the so-called rigorous academic comments. may be emphasized that the difference between fiction and paper, the author comments part of this Buxu called is its emergence as the nature of historical fragments. this is a fragment of history into fiction in the form of narrative, the author presents a complete narrative form is not intended to chronicle the next pattern, although the reader can be made from the scattered flocculation in a self-sorting relatively complete by the living history village context. Xu made the novel so evasive about the official history of the way, to escape the grand historical narrative. It legends, local history, fable The true manner of the Chinese local society and history about the way of another, but also provides a new narrative possibilities. This is the local history, local legends, characters sketches, fables, and historical narrative that combines a comprehensive narrative form, but for now when the main narrative to provide historical background and pre-understanding, constitutes the main narrative with fiction, another parallel world, or even more important to the world. Without this world, ; perhaps the most novel and innovative means that most parts of the form. is desirable to read law. Yan apparently found a fantastic legend of speaking the way the world, with a way that is native ideology, is the local pool of imagination, and even survival itself is an integral part of the local. flocculation described in the introductory part of the local living space, with a rich historical meaning and anthropological content.
Xu made another important part of the role is to provide a rare contemporary fiction inherent in the scene: Utopia and utopian discourse practice dimension 13. this dimension given the historical significance of the contemporary novel is a must to be fully valued. Yan found a speech in the history and legends of the world an ideal way, but also to find a statement that the new utopia possible way. This Speaking to the historical picture of Utopia intertwined with modern elements to dwell together to enrich the utopian discourse should have the complexity and historicity. but behind, it is a single part on the history and Yan utopian idea. Narrative picture of the decision in the history of philosophy, and history of philosophy and in the narrative get a form of expression. history and narrative ideas gained in relative floc made the perfect combination of
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Xanadu, a traditional agricultural society of Utopia, with the novel vocabulary to describe it is kinds of statements: affluence, freedom, scattered relaxed, the exorbitant taxes and levies no state, no government control constraints, similar to the Tao of paradise 14. Chinese traditional Utopian often the nature of local agricultural society, which is originated from Tao Utopia features. Zhang Long River in the , Riruerxi the agricultural society, and modern cities radically different type of utopia. has l children Ru longitudinal songs, gray Huan Yu Yi r so contend from the music scene. We say Tao of paradise with utopian features, important reason is that his vision is an ideal harmony of human society, rather than exceptional in Wonderland. ; This is a traditional agricultural society and traditional intellectuals yearn for the ideal paradise, but it is also a group of utopian, rather than a personal discourse. on The Department is on it depicts a group of traditional Chinese characteristics, social practice, from the earliest by the old lady living village until the 20th century, Mao Chi Po, are all subject to the interests of the living to seek happiness and utopia practitioners. < br>
But this group, the social ideal of actually looking back, is to return to the traditional Tao of paradise. If we say that the future of human society into the modern theory of evolution is followed history of logic, then, Utopian Literature in China there are a Some literary thought Stallone writing mode, also make the concept of traditional Chinese culture and literature, has emerged as a very strong tendency to backward-looking utopia. ; on. This is still the last of the historic tradition of Tao's paradise continues. This makes it a paradise for Yan narrative sense from the concept of the ideal not far from the Tao, but also limits its novelty. creative part is the loss of this local description of Utopia. three
fiction created by the living mass of their own only to words such as world terminology. the so-called paradise land Only by living human to understand, experienced a unique way of life. The feature is free, scattered, honest, non-competition and leisure. by living the good old days such as the loss of down days. also known as lost day, day out. and future years, Mao began to become a woman fighting for a branch target, become the Zhuang people yearning for a better sustenance. , native of Utopia which is incorporated into the practice of communism, the new utopia. But history shows that this is precisely the course of a Paradise Lost, Paradise Lost painful experiences by living in the village mainly through the Great Leap Forward, three years of natural disasters and Cultural Revolution, the disaster process, by the living village found it with modern political and social organization form fit at the same time, heaven-like past years have been lost. So in Mao Chi Po, led by live and to efforts, which attempt to exit the commune, to return to ; an important clue that the novel was included in the revolution by the living history and the history of the practice of socialism, Mao Chi Po is no doubt which links the central figure in this thread. She was the smallest in the Red Fourth Army female soldiers, 30 years mountain climbing When disabled, lost contact with the organization after the way the beggar returned home by the living to stay in the village, while the collective struggle of the revolution and sow the seeds down, and finally led by the parties themselves from a world of living, into a mutual aid , the orbit of cooperatives and communes, in the language used by the living history is to no trace of the limbo in a natural village, a two-under Cassia County, Bo Shuzi a village area management. In the Republic experienced a number of generations of people are familiar with the historical catastrophe (the terminology is subject to live ; Rail Disaster .
like paradise lost by the living world, it seems that the ultimate utopia of traditional Chinese society can not become a universal ideal. Tao Utopia itself is described by the product of a Biqin . It proves that at least from the emperor's era, the state and the regime has sought to rule under the rule into the pattern of The Native. so-called ; the world is I of the world Living, sex, the dirty PO branch organizations and the initiative to find a collective process, but also began to lose the traditional process of utopian ideas. by which access to modern living. It experienced a revolution, socialism, the Cultural Revolution, traditional utopia is clearly with communism, and organized a nationwide mobilization of social forms out of tune. paradise utopias, in fact, thousands of years to convey the small-pattern of a traditional agricultural society organized under the ideal male and female farming. Yan ultimately show the world want to go back was impossible, the traditional agricultural society is bound to be a Utopian Paradise Lost. The reason why the story of paradise has been telling the Chinese intellectuals, and ordinary people, because it is not truly achieved. about the anxiety of being in no real gain .
dystopian novel theme which emerged. This anti-utopian nature of the reflection first in ideology and social system as the communist utopian disillusion. And in the reform and opening up, by living a second village has been suffering from the capitalist consumer utopia utopian mm disillusionment. fiction now is the time to write the story of Liu Ying county to bring living birds want to get rich by the way, its strategy magic. In order to raise huge amounts of money (the novel is called brought a variety of expertise (; the robbery and detention, and finally suffered a heavy defeat. For Living, is now the biggest hit when the commercial activities, it is first to make a fortune by living in a beautiful promise, the desire to show the commercial era of utopian the temptation and the desire to better the possibility to achieve this, the lure seems to bring more than ever the temptation to have a great time, and more can not resist, because the capitalist utopia of consumption in the wake of the instinctive desire of human nature. However, it is precisely this time, the utopian picture of the living are subject to an unprecedented destruction: they maintain the local utopian tradition from generation to generation by the new material desires and commercial activities of alienation and eroded completely.
< ; p> Susan? Sontag (Susan Sontag) in a conversation, said: cultural structure of an authoritarian regime and the majority of non-interference value system. fascist regime ruled for over two decades in Italy, but it is almost no change in the country's daily life, habits, attitudes and the environment. However, the two decades of war to change the capitalist system after the Italian, so that this country is almost beyond recognition. in the Soviet-style communism, and even totalitarian rule, the basic way of life most people are still rooted in the value system of the past. Therefore, from a cultural perspective speaking, the capitalist consumer society is more than absolute despotism, devastating. the degree of capitalism in a deep and truly change people's thinking and behavior. It is to destroy the past. It is with profound nihilism values. This is a bit autocorrelation contradiction, because the people welcomed the authoritarian state capitalism. This is understandable. they thought they would be more wealthy, their standard of living will increase. This is like in China than in the former Soviet Union to achieve good bit. But, the opportunity to come together to prosperity was also the most intense cultural change. people are willing to put their own lives and value systems completely destroyed. The capitalist business culture is incredible. It may be the most radical social thought in history, it are much more intense than the communism. radical capitalism, not communism. his fellow Walter? Benjamin added that the revolution is not a runaway train, but an emergency brake. capitalism became a value to each question, so familiar Digestion form of life to fall apart, so that all the solid stuff into the air or soap opera. capitalist consumer utopia demonstrate the value system of traditional life and the more destructive side. China's traditional rural utopia of modernity in particular, incompatible with capitalism. increasingly narrow space in the process. Yan Utopia Once Local history, enter the system, enter the goods times, then lost its original vitality, quickly revolution, political, institutional, and consumer desire for alienation. significance is in the performance of several utopian concept and practice of the collision, dynamics and conflict, one at least from the age of paradise Tao had started the tradition of the utopian spirit, and second, the utopian idea of communism and the revolution and socialism in China practice of history. And ultimately, both of which are utopian in the capital before the collapse of the consumer, Diukuixiejia. This is the history of the world into the modern system, especially into the universal problem of the wake of globalization. As communism utopian concept and practice of frustration, and Japanese scholars, Francis Fukuyama called live in a utopian era, but each living in a perfect experience for the end of the mm are to be more precise, the end point has been over the age of mm. like write it out. In this sense, Representative pattern of anti-utopian.
Yan's the existence and struggle, and the traditional are modern Utopia Utopia erosion, show that China's local form of utopian ideas and how the system in modern history and contemporary possibilities and gradually lost its legitimacy, as well as traditional living conditions and How to survive the loss of law is a historical process. In other words, in the performance of the utopia of communism and capitalism commercial utopia deep suspicion, but also to write the loss of traditional local utopia. In this sense, the authors show China's rural society is a profound historical crisis. by living on the survival of the painted picture is also positive with this anti-utopian discourse practice and rose to a level of ontology and anthropology. ; concept factors erode. A utopia is entirely possible to bring the opposite of human things, this is the utopia itself in their long history of alienation. or that the practice itself has meaning Utopia rebellious elements of self, which is the ultimate utopian idea paradox. Utopia is a concept of the first existence, when the history of it, he incurs the same time put into human practice, from its original meaning may be further away. But the problem is difficult to resist the utopian concept of human beings to pay into practice the temptation. In the suspected. He wrote the historical practice of the disaster brought by the living, but ignored the choice of modern Chinese history and the inevitability of communism. its history (history of revolution, the Cultural Revolution history) history behind the idea of a narrative tendency to conceptualize As pointed out by Li Tuo, the lack of br> IV
Yan create a utopia with a local Chinese, and is backward-looking. It is a conscious or unconscious according to the traditional culture and resources for the results. However, it is also their literary practice to clear from the Chinese traditional and contemporary cultural reality is difficult to point to the future generation of cultural ideals, resulting in the dimensions of the future is not clear to the utopian possibilities. In the future, Yan is shown by a loss and helplessness.
spatial isolation is that early utopian works of Western characteristics, such as Moore Utopia is described by the New World Heath Loti found in the Americas, and Bacon (Francis Bacon) In the history of Western modernity as a time of increasingly evolving concept. In Jameson (F. Jameson) there, hh So the new historical action to create a memorial instead of r l l temporal spatial nostalgia r forward (future) to see logo Eastern traditions with modern Western ideal of paradise to the utopian idea of the sense of the difference. from the super timing. In Dream Decline of the literature about the real and historical fables. China is similar to the Western concept of utopia is about the birth of the late Qing Dynasty, which is based on Kang's Although Kang's social ideal is more access to resources from the traditional thought, but the specific form of 7.
but in the 20th century, 20 years Feiming novel , that is, from the poetic culture in China's own traditional aesthetic utopia. It is the continuation of several thousand years of Chinese poetry as a poetic tradition of the country, waste name in the novel created a hauntingly poetic world . its idyllic atmosphere, particularly reminiscent of Tao's . of the real eyes closed, and in constructing a utopian fantasy here Tianchou hh, mountain, water, trees, villages, Teenage, North Korea, Eve, has a layer of misty hazy color, yet also seemed like a dream paradise. This This book lead the reader into the world is a paradise l r. Utopia is the east, in this sense, the symbolic schemata While Western traditions provide another utopian idea, but did not form a utopian literary tradition, not as works of Moore as the West since the utopia of an ideal society for a detailed description nuanced. at this point , Kumar (Krishan Kumar) doubt that the Chinese have a real utopia, does make sense. However, despite utopian form of literary fiction, but more important feature is its meaning and content. Or create a local park with oriental forms of waste were created ; motif, showing a real and concrete things, but only by means of the traditional world of Review can really be, this is the utopia of the past waste of names. This is the last of the Tao of paradise is still a historical continuation of the traditional 11. until the 21st century Today's The birth, immediately aroused the universal concern of Chinese literature. It appeared in the Chinese contemporary novels a rare utopian dimension of discourse and practice, provides a worthy in my opinion, the inherent visual novel: This is the Living, was a great migration. HU Da immigration minister then on they have to repay the grace of charity rake a deep groove in the mountain columbine disabled dumb mother, answered her plea, promised to move the team unable to move the blind father and son to stay paralyzed , : Aquilegia rake this mountain gully, the water enough soil and fertilizer, you have a grain of silver to live by farming it here the product of immigration, but it's from scratch but no different from a creation myth, and then became a haven for people with disabilities. My life was like in heaven, neighbors eight villages, and even neighboring counties neighboring county are owned by people with disabilities will come The Great Migration, originally feudal dynasty to the world and all the people into their territory to be reworked and the planning process, but by living it strange village to escape from this process out into a world of parties themselves, become disabled paradise. The founding myth of Living, a village in the beginning to the official history and legends of the way real to the enemy, the sound and incomplete, domination and escape, bound and free, national, and autonomy themes unite in struggle together, it also indicates the After a long course of history intertwined with state power, the relationship between the statutes.
composed entirely of persons with disabilities of the world, and almost all the villagers uncanny pregnant, and these differences are intrinsic sound normal (novel called disability, have a round by round living but does not have the specific function of the amazing, that in itself is an amazing idea. novel factors associated with the important concept of Utopia, is about the disabled and the the dialectical: only to get yourself disabled, in order to become subject to the living. ordinary people wishing to enter this utopia, we must first put yourself into a disability. Disability is into this world passes, novels by living through those years, and the magistrate Eagle County Magistrate Liu birds today are only obtained by way of self-harm by living in a right to live. legendary magistrate would rather cut off the hand of one of his sound, but also in what he described as paradise by living to stay, not only that, he also worried that their child is a circle round: blind to the outside world, Hu Chuang swing, and that he will suffer. . Disability is a sin, it is also self-salvation. precisely because of disability, was able to Ruwutuobang the door, the disability itself is salvation possible. and the novel in the can not enter by the living world, or a round-round because of its properties. disability and circle round and therefore the dialectic, a fable with a color, but also to make this utopia the world has had a surreal charm person's breath 12. important dimension of the concept of utopia. novel attempt to convey the idea: it is incomplete, it created a fundamental not satisfactory; it is not complete, so is the paradise on earth. , natural utopia Yan together with the defects. This is a mockery of the theme of Utopia. It is this mockery of the local means Yan classic utopian utopian ideas and the difference lies.
village on the disabled living paradise by the history and legends the world, mainly in the novel do the loom of a their unique living village where vocabulary, showing the historical background of village life by giving an account of people's identity and experience. The existence of the floc comments made by way of the part also constitutes the main body of the novel, many parts are independent Chengzhang Xu Yan, and Xu Yan turned around the same time in the way comments floc derived from the new words, which to assimilate a huge traction out of the history of a complicated network of space-time. Of course the so-called rigorous academic comments. may be emphasized that the difference between fiction and paper, the author comments part of this Buxu called is its emergence as the nature of historical fragments. this is a fragment of history into fiction in the form of narrative, the author presents a complete narrative form is not intended to chronicle the next pattern, although the reader can be made from the scattered flocculation in a self-sorting relatively complete by the living history village context. Xu made the novel so evasive about the official history of the way, to escape the grand historical narrative. It legends, local history, fable The true manner of the Chinese local society and history about the way of another, but also provides a new narrative possibilities. This is the local history, local legends, characters sketches, fables, and historical narrative that combines a comprehensive narrative form, but for now when the main narrative to provide historical background and pre-understanding, constitutes the main narrative with fiction, another parallel world, or even more important to the world. Without this world, ; perhaps the most novel and innovative means that most parts of the form. is desirable to read law. Yan apparently found a fantastic legend of speaking the way the world, with a way that is native ideology, is the local pool of imagination, and even survival itself is an integral part of the local. flocculation described in the introductory part of the local living space, with a rich historical meaning and anthropological content.
Xu made another important part of the role is to provide a rare contemporary fiction inherent in the scene: Utopia and utopian discourse practice dimension 13. this dimension given the historical significance of the contemporary novel is a must to be fully valued. Yan found a speech in the history and legends of the world an ideal way, but also to find a statement that the new utopia possible way. This Speaking to the historical picture of Utopia intertwined with modern elements to dwell together to enrich the utopian discourse should have the complexity and historicity. but behind, it is a single part on the history and Yan utopian idea. Narrative picture of the decision in the history of philosophy, and history of philosophy and in the narrative get a form of expression. history and narrative ideas gained in relative floc made the perfect combination of
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Xanadu, a traditional agricultural society of Utopia, with the novel vocabulary to describe it is kinds of statements: affluence, freedom, scattered relaxed, the exorbitant taxes and levies no state, no government control constraints, similar to the Tao of paradise 14. Chinese traditional Utopian often the nature of local agricultural society, which is originated from Tao Utopia features. Zhang Long River in the , Riruerxi the agricultural society, and modern cities radically different type of utopia. has l children Ru longitudinal songs, gray Huan Yu Yi r so contend from the music scene. We say Tao of paradise with utopian features, important reason is that his vision is an ideal harmony of human society, rather than exceptional in Wonderland. ; This is a traditional agricultural society and traditional intellectuals yearn for the ideal paradise, but it is also a group of utopian, rather than a personal discourse. on The Department is on it depicts a group of traditional Chinese characteristics, social practice, from the earliest by the old lady living village until the 20th century, Mao Chi Po, are all subject to the interests of the living to seek happiness and utopia practitioners. < br>
But this group, the social ideal of actually looking back, is to return to the traditional Tao of paradise. If we say that the future of human society into the modern theory of evolution is followed history of logic, then, Utopian Literature in China there are a Some literary thought Stallone writing mode, also make the concept of traditional Chinese culture and literature, has emerged as a very strong tendency to backward-looking utopia. ; on. This is still the last of the historic tradition of Tao's paradise continues. This makes it a paradise for Yan narrative sense from the concept of the ideal not far from the Tao, but also limits its novelty. creative part is the loss of this local description of Utopia. three
fiction created by the living mass of their own only to words such as world terminology. the so-called paradise land Only by living human to understand, experienced a unique way of life. The feature is free, scattered, honest, non-competition and leisure. by living the good old days such as the loss of down days. also known as lost day, day out. and future years, Mao began to become a woman fighting for a branch target, become the Zhuang people yearning for a better sustenance. , native of Utopia which is incorporated into the practice of communism, the new utopia. But history shows that this is precisely the course of a Paradise Lost, Paradise Lost painful experiences by living in the village mainly through the Great Leap Forward, three years of natural disasters and Cultural Revolution, the disaster process, by the living village found it with modern political and social organization form fit at the same time, heaven-like past years have been lost. So in Mao Chi Po, led by live and to efforts, which attempt to exit the commune, to return to ; an important clue that the novel was included in the revolution by the living history and the history of the practice of socialism, Mao Chi Po is no doubt which links the central figure in this thread. She was the smallest in the Red Fourth Army female soldiers, 30 years mountain climbing When disabled, lost contact with the organization after the way the beggar returned home by the living to stay in the village, while the collective struggle of the revolution and sow the seeds down, and finally led by the parties themselves from a world of living, into a mutual aid , the orbit of cooperatives and communes, in the language used by the living history is to no trace of the limbo in a natural village, a two-under Cassia County, Bo Shuzi a village area management. In the Republic experienced a number of generations of people are familiar with the historical catastrophe (the terminology is subject to live ; Rail Disaster .
like paradise lost by the living world, it seems that the ultimate utopia of traditional Chinese society can not become a universal ideal. Tao Utopia itself is described by the product of a Biqin . It proves that at least from the emperor's era, the state and the regime has sought to rule under the rule into the pattern of The Native. so-called ; the world is I of the world Living, sex, the dirty PO branch organizations and the initiative to find a collective process, but also began to lose the traditional process of utopian ideas. by which access to modern living. It experienced a revolution, socialism, the Cultural Revolution, traditional utopia is clearly with communism, and organized a nationwide mobilization of social forms out of tune. paradise utopias, in fact, thousands of years to convey the small-pattern of a traditional agricultural society organized under the ideal male and female farming. Yan ultimately show the world want to go back was impossible, the traditional agricultural society is bound to be a Utopian Paradise Lost. The reason why the story of paradise has been telling the Chinese intellectuals, and ordinary people, because it is not truly achieved. about the anxiety of being in no real gain .
dystopian novel theme which emerged. This anti-utopian nature of the reflection first in ideology and social system as the communist utopian disillusion. And in the reform and opening up, by living a second village has been suffering from the capitalist consumer utopia utopian mm disillusionment. fiction now is the time to write the story of Liu Ying county to bring living birds want to get rich by the way, its strategy magic. In order to raise huge amounts of money (the novel is called brought a variety of expertise (; the robbery and detention, and finally suffered a heavy defeat. For Living, is now the biggest hit when the commercial activities, it is first to make a fortune by living in a beautiful promise, the desire to show the commercial era of utopian the temptation and the desire to better the possibility to achieve this, the lure seems to bring more than ever the temptation to have a great time, and more can not resist, because the capitalist utopia of consumption in the wake of the instinctive desire of human nature. However, it is precisely this time, the utopian picture of the living are subject to an unprecedented destruction: they maintain the local utopian tradition from generation to generation by the new material desires and commercial activities of alienation and eroded completely.
< ; p> Susan? Sontag (Susan Sontag) in a conversation, said: cultural structure of an authoritarian regime and the majority of non-interference value system. fascist regime ruled for over two decades in Italy, but it is almost no change in the country's daily life, habits, attitudes and the environment. However, the two decades of war to change the capitalist system after the Italian, so that this country is almost beyond recognition. in the Soviet-style communism, and even totalitarian rule, the basic way of life most people are still rooted in the value system of the past. Therefore, from a cultural perspective speaking, the capitalist consumer society is more than absolute despotism, devastating. the degree of capitalism in a deep and truly change people's thinking and behavior. It is to destroy the past. It is with profound nihilism values. This is a bit autocorrelation contradiction, because the people welcomed the authoritarian state capitalism. This is understandable. they thought they would be more wealthy, their standard of living will increase. This is like in China than in the former Soviet Union to achieve good bit. But, the opportunity to come together to prosperity was also the most intense cultural change. people are willing to put their own lives and value systems completely destroyed. The capitalist business culture is incredible. It may be the most radical social thought in history, it are much more intense than the communism. radical capitalism, not communism. his fellow Walter? Benjamin added that the revolution is not a runaway train, but an emergency brake. capitalism became a value to each question, so familiar Digestion form of life to fall apart, so that all the solid stuff into the air or soap opera. capitalist consumer utopia demonstrate the value system of traditional life and the more destructive side. China's traditional rural utopia of modernity in particular, incompatible with capitalism. increasingly narrow space in the process. Yan Utopia Once Local history, enter the system, enter the goods times, then lost its original vitality, quickly revolution, political, institutional, and consumer desire for alienation. significance is in the performance of several utopian concept and practice of the collision, dynamics and conflict, one at least from the age of paradise Tao had started the tradition of the utopian spirit, and second, the utopian idea of communism and the revolution and socialism in China practice of history. And ultimately, both of which are utopian in the capital before the collapse of the consumer, Diukuixiejia. This is the history of the world into the modern system, especially into the universal problem of the wake of globalization. As communism utopian concept and practice of frustration, and Japanese scholars, Francis Fukuyama called live in a utopian era, but each living in a perfect experience for the end of the mm are to be more precise, the end point has been over the age of mm. like write it out. In this sense, Representative pattern of anti-utopian.
Yan's the existence and struggle, and the traditional are modern Utopia Utopia erosion, show that China's local form of utopian ideas and how the system in modern history and contemporary possibilities and gradually lost its legitimacy, as well as traditional living conditions and How to survive the loss of law is a historical process. In other words, in the performance of the utopia of communism and capitalism commercial utopia deep suspicion, but also to write the loss of traditional local utopia. In this sense, the authors show China's rural society is a profound historical crisis. by living on the survival of the painted picture is also positive with this anti-utopian discourse practice and rose to a level of ontology and anthropology. ; concept factors erode. A utopia is entirely possible to bring the opposite of human things, this is the utopia itself in their long history of alienation. or that the practice itself has meaning Utopia rebellious elements of self, which is the ultimate utopian idea paradox. Utopia is a concept of the first existence, when the history of it, he incurs the same time put into human practice, from its original meaning may be further away. But the problem is difficult to resist the utopian concept of human beings to pay into practice the temptation. In the suspected. He wrote the historical practice of the disaster brought by the living, but ignored the choice of modern Chinese history and the inevitability of communism. its history (history of revolution, the Cultural Revolution history) history behind the idea of a narrative tendency to conceptualize As pointed out by Li Tuo, the lack of br> IV
Yan create a utopia with a local Chinese, and is backward-looking. It is a conscious or unconscious according to the traditional culture and resources for the results. However, it is also their literary practice to clear from the Chinese traditional and contemporary cultural reality is difficult to point to the future generation of cultural ideals, resulting in the dimensions of the future is not clear to the utopian possibilities. In the future, Yan is shown by a loss and helplessness.
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